Let a person who wants to be comfortable must have self-motivation and desire; step on the feet of those who have enthusiasm and desire, and put out his desires, both of which are disasters.

Editor’s note: This article is from WeChat public account “Warm Stone Network” (ID:nuanshi100), author Zhang Jun.

In fact, if you look at this question, you will know that this is not a non-A or B. It must be “resign first” or “first find a job.” It is to be combined with your own specific situation.

01,What conditions are suitable for “first find a good job”?

One, the deposit is not enough to support you through the time to find a job

What you have to ask yourself is:It can last for a few months at a relatively low level of consumer acceptance that you can accept.

For example, I am a Beijinger. I am also looking for a job in Beijing. My family doesn’t wait for me to buy a rice pot. I can live without it, so my pressure is smaller.

If you are in the field, renting, eating, transportation, water and electricity, mobile phone bills, etc. These are the necessary expenses. Calculate, you can spend a few months.

Note that you can’t have blind self-confidence and think you can find a job within a month,you have to set aside time for the possibility of finding a job that is not going well. .

And when you count your expenses, you have to reserve some money for mobile use, you can’t guarantee that you won’t be in the next few months or even six months. If you are ill, you must first ensure that you have the financial ability to respond to emergencies and prevent the unknown.

If you can’t live for half a year, then you’d better learn or find a job first, not a bare word.

Second, I haven’t thought about what industry, what position, and people who don’t have the skills.

Especially if you want to change an industry. You have no plans for the industry that you are going to do in the future. You will certainly not see the specific post.The skills required for the position and position.

Because you want to find a job smoothly, you can’t get into the job by saying “guarantee can do well.”

YouYou need a job with the required skills. You can learn without the skills. This learning cycle can be as long or short depending on the requirements of different positions., you are now If you rush to the naked words, plus the unknown learning cycle, you will be very anxious.

The knowledge to be learned has not been learned well, and it has prolonged the time for finding a job. It will make you very uncomfortable.

You can say that I want to make a decision to force myself, so that is fine, but don’t force yourself to die.

For the transferer, the small cost can do is to find the target industry, target position, and learn first.

First come first to get the mentality of thinking and skills; secondly, verify yourself, in the end, it is not suitable for the position you expect, this work you can not do.

It’s not a big risk to learn first, and it’s a big risk to resign first.

Three, family conditions are difficult

This family condition means that your family needs your income to keep up and running. If you are still repaying a mortgage, for example, you have a child to be fed.

The basic life problems are not solved. The arbitrary resignation has no benefit to you. It will not only make you anxious, but also directly affect the normal life of the family. It is equivalent to letting the family bear the potential with you. risk.

You must resign at this time, and you must be a good choice.

If you want to change your family status as soon as possible, let yourself earn more and make your family better. Think so well, at least you are not comfortable with the status quo.

But don’t be so anxious,Snap a bite, step by step, let yourself make a safe transition, a better choice for you . Because you are not alone, the whole family is not hungry.

02,What conditions are suitable for “resign first”?

Note:People who can resign first must exclude the risk of not resigning as mentioned above before they can choose the option to resign!

One, the current work squeezes your time and there is nothing left

If you resign, you can afford to live; if you have roughly figured out where you want to go, you have set aside time to learn new skills; if you don’t have family terms You are affected by your resignation.

Now your work has taken up all your time. After your 996’s work has gone home and you have become a dog, and you don’t have much energy to learn, you can choose to resign first.

Note here that you can still leave a “backhand”, you have to combine your work experience.

After learning new knowledge for too long, or if you need income, can you find a job relatively easy in your city with your current experience?

If you are, you can concentrate on your resignation with confidence.

PS: Of course, you can also take your own experience first, go to several companies for an interview and try it out. If the entry is relatively smooth, then verify that you can have a job once you have no food. This is more insurance.

Second, you are particularly clear about what you want to do in the future

If you resign, you can afford to live; if you have roughly figured out where you want to go, you have set aside time to learn new skills; if you don’t have family terms You are affected by your resignation.

Now,You are particularly clear about what you want to do in the future. You can choose to resign at this time. When you have a clear learning goal, you will do your best.

Of course, if you are not working at the current level, you can do your own work as required, and you still have enough time to self-learn, which means you don’t have to resign immediately. For a while.

PS: Tips, especially what you want to do in the future, and you can do well, this is two different things.

is not necessarily clear, it is very suitable for you, so the suggestion here is that you still have to try first, verify that you are really suitable for doing, then it is better to focus on learning.

Third, if your current company has made you extremely anxious, you can see the ceiling at a glance

If you resign, you can afford to live; if you have roughly figured out where you want to go, you have set aside time to learn new skills; if you don’t have family terms You are affected by your resignation.

Now your environment, you feel suffocating, let you see yourself at the age of 40, you know what industry you are doing, if you can continue, what development can be seen, it seems obvious The ceiling is too weak to change.

Plus if you are younger, then rush.

The age of 20, 30 is best to the left, although it can not be said absolutely, but most people set the important stereotype of the career tone.

Since we are all very clear that the future society is Internet-based, and the corresponding talent needs are Internet talents, then keep up with the social trends, don’t fall behind.

Otherwise, if you are in your 30s and 40s, you may be uncomfortable. When you are not developing well, your learning ability and physical strength are declining. It is possible that you have already married a baby and you are carrying a mortgage. When you want to change, it is really not that easy.

Finally, it is important to emphasize that I am not trying to sell anxiety. I want to change and make myself better. I think so. I want to be comfortable, it’s right .

There is no standard for success, and you become the person you want to be.

People who have ambition and desire, and those who want to be comfortable, are two people from different worlds. The biggest mistake is:
 
Because a person who wants to be comfortable must have self-motivation and desire;
 
Take a person with enthusiasm and desire to step on his feet and put his desires on.