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“Migraine type”, “Adult woman aging type”, “Dangerous type”, “No money barber type” …

These strange hairstyle names that “Teacher Tony” will never die will be produced from Sichuan Ziyang Lezhi Experimental Middle School. The school recently announced 15 types of banned hairstyles for middle school students, 13 of which were visually displayed with comics. Many netizens said that they smiled when they saw the seventh and eighth species.

List of prohibited hairstyles in Lezhi Experimental Middle School

The school stated in an interview with the media that this is based on the relevant regulations of “No Perm, No Hair Dye, No Makeup, No Jewelry, No Long Hair for Boys, No High Heels for Girls” in the “Code of Conduct for Middle School Students’ Daily Behavior” It is detailed and not mandatory. It is mainly education.

A parent of a student at the school also expressed gratitude, “I think the teacher is very attentive, and it is important for children in middle school to cultivate the correct aesthetics.”

Well, Uncle Dao has been in the media for many years and feels that although any matter can’t be made like Luo Shengmen, the relevant parties have to be interviewed in order to understand it relatively objectively and comprehensively, otherwise it will inevitably be biased.

From the current media reports, it can be seen that a related party, a student, is obviously missing. It seems as if the price of oil is going to rise. There is the affirmation of the relevant departments, there is a reason for the enterprise side, there is the support of channel dealers, but there is no voice of the owner, shouldn’t it?

In those years, we kept these hairstyles to see the meteor shower

One

Hair, has always been the focus of junior high school discipline.

The hairstyle taboos and strange names released by Lezhi Experimental Middle School are not the first. They were implemented in schools a few years ago. A similar approach can go back at least two or thirty years.

In the 1990s, when Uncle Island went to middle school, Hong Kong and Taiwan stars became popular all over the country, and Guo Fucheng’s head shape was particularly popular. At that time, I did n’t have the money to go to the Wenzhou Hair Salon for the whole one, and I started the soil method: keep my hair long, wash my hair, and gather the wet hair into thirty-seven, and then hold the split of the hairline with your left hand and do Thinking, waiting for the hair to dry, like the poster.

The trick here is to press from the bottom to the top when you press the fork, so that you can feel elegant. Don’t ask how Uncle Island knew.

This head shape is absolutely pulling the wind, that is, it cannot be seen by the teaching director. It ’s over when you see it. When you call your parents, what a “little gangster”, a “little man”, a “early love”, all kinds of hats are buckled up. The next thing is simple: cut it.

Although the management is strict, everyone will do whatever they want. The “migraine type” released by Lezhi Experimental Middle School is a hairstyle that is enough to “beat the time”. Uncle Island’s classmates have kept this hairstyle, and often shake their heads, but now they don’t have that hair volume and energy.

Why do students care about hairstyles? This is probably the only self-reserved land with a flamboyant personality. I don’t see personality in study, math test 100 points and 90 points, there is no difference in personality. Not to mention clothing, since the school uniforms in our middle schools have no meaning of advancing with the times since the reform and opening up, the second sexual characteristics can only stay in the class of physical hygiene. Only hair can change to show your presence.

In addition to expressing personality, another connotation of hairstyle is reflected in the social sense. Unshaven is considered to be shameless, meaning to not want to deal with people. Taking care of hair and designing haircuts to a certain extent reflect the importance attached to communication.

The same is true in schools. Middle school students have high academic pressures and fewer channels for dispatch. Through changes in hairstyles, topics can be raised, attention can be raised, and communication can be triggered, so as to appropriately transfer and reduce psychological pressure.

Uncle Island thinks that as long as it’s not a Moxy, it can still be discussed.

Second

Why schools and parents alike, apart from students, is the point of view—there is no seriousness in haircuts, but no love of learning?

From a parent’s standpoint, the answer is one word. Afraid, afraid that children will invest their energy in hairstyles, which will affect learning. In this sense, this fear is not a period-specific emotion, but a historic collective consciousness.

In the past ten years, parents were afraid of children ’s addiction to super girl voices to influence learning; in the past two decades, parents were afraid of children ’s addiction to playing Street Fighter to affect learning; in the past thirty years, parents were afraid of flared pants, toad mirror, Jin Yong, Gulong Affects learning; for the past 40 years, I am afraid of “Second Handshake” …

“The previous generation” has been so worried for so many years, but our country has not become better or worse because of this. It just follows the inherent historical logic. , Not to die. ” Does it mean that such fears are unnecessary, indifferent and unnecessary?

I do n’t know. I just looked at the “too ego” label and posted it from the previous generation to the next generation. The conflict of ideas between the two generations has only changed the form, but the substance has never changed—don’t believe it.

My parents don’t believe I can manage myself, I don’t believe my son can manage himself. The daughter-in-law became a wife, and her position immediately reversed. Is this a distortion of human nature or a loss of morality?

In the past two days, a letter caused many people to think. A mother tutored her child to do her homework because she was so unwilling to change it that she was furious. My grandmother took out her 23-year-old book, which reads:

“Today, there are seven mistakes in the sixteen questions in your algebra assignment. Yes, your father was very angry at the time. You were angry that you did not take a rigorous attitude to study. You were angry that you did not understand the hard work of your father and mother. What makes you angry is why you do n’t fight for it. After your dad severely criticized you, let you redo all the algebra assignments, and your mouth is full of dissatisfaction, as if you are full of reason. I imagine that in the future your child will happen to you now A similar question, what should you do? I think you will be more educated than your dad in the future, and your morals will be better than your dad. Maybe you will not have the same attitude as your dad, but I believe you will never ignore it or be angry. < br>

I do n’t know how expensive my food is. If I do n’t raise a child, I do n’t know how kind my parents are, if I ’m not a parent, how to taste the hardships of being a parent. Someday you will also be a parent, so now we will leave this text message, ten years later, how do you teach children? !! “

The reincarnation of heaven, has anyone really never spared?

Three

Dragging away, let’s pull back and talk about hairstyle.

In fact, after speaking for a long time, Uncle Dao did not criticize Lezhi Experimental Middle School, but instead felt that the practice of this middle school is commendable 2:

A ridiculous and summative summary of the strange hairstyle, which in itself releases the respect for personality signal, which is a dead-end persuasion standing on a horizontal line with the students, not high-handed and rigid Preaching, one of them;

It is not mandatory, not to cut a weird head shape, but to leave room for students to generate endogenous motivation to change hairstyles spontaneously, respect students’ choices .

Whether this move is worthy of promotion and reference, uncle Dao thinks he can observe it again. In fact, we should talk about the control of hairstyles. The “span class =” text-remarks “label =” Remarks “> in the” Code of Conduct for Middle School Students’ Daily Behavior “(and its practice on the campuses of multi-level middle schools) , there is no room for weird hairstyles.

Changing another line of thought, if use this ridiculous publication as a way to communicate with students , it would be very comforting to show the school ’s attempt to understand the students ’psychological dynamics.

The article is from WeChat public account: Xia Ke Island (ID: xiake_island) , author: Tian won three fox