A young man proposes to a young woman.
 The female said: “I can marry you, but you have to agree to my terms.”
  The man said, “No problem, you can mention it, I promise you all.”
  “I will go back to your house and not work in the fields.”
  “It’s up to you.” The man said.
  “I don’t cook.”
  “With you.”
  “I don’t do laundry, I don’t sweep the floor, and I don’t clean up the dishes”
  “With you.”
  “I don’t serve in-laws.”
  “With you.”
  “Don’t mention it, it’s up to you, let’s go.” The man said.
  So we got married.
After the three dynasties, the men asked the women to work in the fields together. The women refused, and the men beat them with a fist, and the women made a big fuss: “I said before I got married. You worked in the fields, and you agreed.”
 The man said: “Yes, I also said’hammer’ you. Now it’s not’hammer’ you?”
  The woman was speechless, and obediently followed her to work in the fields.
 After work, the woman sits still. Say: “I’m tired, I don’t need to cook anymore.”
 The man raised his fist and shook: “Hammer you”.
 The lady’s helplessness, she went to cook again.
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 A few days later, women dare not mention those “nos” anymore.