Lack of planning, too casual, and sooner or later have to pay the price.

Editor’s note: This article is from WeChat public account “Liu Shimei Beauty” (ID: crystal_words)< /a>, author Zhao Xiaoli.

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Recently, the TV series “Little Joy” is being broadcast.

Today’s article, I want to talk about the middle-aged man played by Huang Lei in the play.

His situation may be the epitome of some middle-aged people.

As someone feels like –

Think about you, I have easily squeezed through the college entrance examination, the wooden bridge, and admitted to the university, and later found a job, but no one thought that life still has not let you and me.

The little joy of Huang Lei, 40 years old, was unemployed and sent out. How did he break a good hand?

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It’s true that there is a saying. People’s life is plain, and they are making choices continuously.

Small to go to school at that time is to get up on time or stay late, to what school to apply for what to apply for later, then to do what work behind, find someone to marry and be a baby, all are making choices.

At that time, we didn’t know the weight of each choice. We made choices in a hurry or at will, and even some people gave the right to choose, such as parents.

Until one day, life gave us a slap in the face.

The circle played by Huang Lei in “Little Joy” slowly climbed to the half of life. Perhaps he never thought that one day, he would face the dilemma of unemployment!

The little joy of Huang Lei, 40 years old, was unemployed and sent out. How did he smash a good hand?

A layoff dialogue is often a bit of a heartfelt meaning~

Do you know how frustrating this matter is?

It’s not that the company really can’t do it. On the contrary, after the company’s merger and acquisition success, it’s a good idea to be able to come back to work as a department leader. I didn’t expect to wait for the loss of layoffs.

To say layoffs, as a middle-aged person, it is not incomprehensible. Yes, the company is in trouble, the benefits are not good, and it is impossible to open the pot, but the fact is that the rest of the entire department has not been laid off. Only he was laid off alone.

Huang Lei,

If you change it, you will ask if you are not worried. !

You will be familiar with this move in the workplace.

What is this?

The “kill” of live detachment!

The question is, why does the company want to “kill” this person to the middle age?

It is reasonable to say that the industry in which Fangyuan is located is not an IT industry where the technology update is iteratively rapid. Moreover, the occupations that Fangyuan is engaged in are still technically qualified legal counsel in the eyes of many people.

Where there is still some merit in this person, it is not going to be laid off!

What are the taboos touched by this square, which has caused his career to fall to such a degree?

Huang Lei,

In my opinion, there is a very important reason, that is –

Because I am in a highly competitive environment outside the system, I have lived a life in the system. I don’t know how to plan for sex. I often touch the minefield of professional development, and I’ve got a good hand in my life!

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Start with a detail.

Before the birthday of the high school class teacher Fang Yifan’s class, I remember the gift that I bought as the father’s father?

Turtle.

The teacher was scared at the time.

Huang Lei,

Is it said that this turtle is not a curse?

You said that this parent is not reliable, would you think of buying a turtle for his son’s class teacher as a birthday present?

Combined with the various performances of the TV series to broadcast the rear circle, it is not difficult to know that the person who is a party is not likely to be long-term, casual, and will not plan for the future.

It’s like a lie to help his son Fang Yifan, and he doesn’t care about his son’s countdown to the first thing. It’s not a violation of the “heart”.

The style is not strict, and you can’t hide your words. In the company, you are as good at home as you can, and you can get promoted better. It doesn’t matter if you don’t promote.

——Whether the Buddha and the casual people are placed in a fiercely competitive corporate environment, how can they give people a feeling of “relief”?

I would like to say that for adults, you have the right to choose. If you feel bad, you can choose another way, and the most inefficient situation is no more than –

Don’t dare to make your own choices, and you are not loyal to your current choices, and you will be given the most fair ruling in the end.

Wang Lei of

Be aware that the starting point of the workplace is enough to open up a lot of peers.

Beijing Aboriginal, graduated from the University of Political Science and Law, has a car and a house in the capital, a lawyer, and is a legal consultant in the company; wife Dong Wenjie is the financial director of a company…

The biggest bug in this area is that since you have read the legal profession, why have you not obtained a lawyer’s certificate for the ten years of graduation?

Some people say that the role of Fangyuan has chosen a profession that he doesn’t like from the beginning, and he doesn’t know what he wants. After graduating from the law department of China University of Political Science and Law, he has not yet taken the judicial exam in his forties. I have a headache when I look at a professional book, but I have been doing this kind of work.

Who do you say strange?

Huang Lei, 40, was unemployed and sent out for sale. How did he smash a good hand?

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Have you found out that this is an “infinite loop”?

The choice of a profession that you don’t like, the problem is that you don’t know what you want; it’s been driven by time, it’s been for ten years; there is no improvement in the professional knowledge and quality, and there is no attempt in other areas. And hard work, Baba is imagining that one day can make a beautiful turnaround, and refuse to stand on the reality or analyze the self, for fear of breaking the perfect self in the ideal…

How many people are caught in such a vicious circle, can’t break through, and are trapped in time, letting the years go by.

In fact, whether you choose to try other areas or choose to adjust your mindset, it is a kind of change. The most taboo is to know that you don’t like your current job, but don’t make any changes.

Looking at the square played by Huang Lei, it is not difficult to understand.

In the first episode, the “old-age life” of Fangyuan has been fully shown to the audience.

This square is a pair of chests with no ambitions. I think about planting flowers and raising birds all day long, and also staged a bargaining code with the boss in the flower and bird market.

It’s no wonder that some people say that holding the high income on the surface of private companies does not consider the risks of the future. They just want to live through and live through the days of state-owned enterprises or civil servants.

Which is such a good thing in the world?

Huang Lei,

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For many ordinary people, there is no second income channel. Therefore, focusing on a single way of practice, that is, looking for one direction plus time accumulation, may be the hardest but most practical for ordinary people. The way of living.

Look at the old classmates who have not seen each other for many years. In any case, he is loyal to his chosen career and can withstand the temper. When he is young, he runs around the country’s major towns and towns, eating boring canteen meals all the year round.

–With his persistence and precipitation, his officers grew bigger and bigger.

Huang Lei,