Get out of the way, circle of friends!
Editor’s note: This article is from the WeChat public account “dimensional small vitamins” (ID: Weixiaowei6), the author of the small vitamin masters.
Yesterday brushed Weibo to a particularly interesting content, #上海保姆朋友圈鄙视链#.
When I saw the title, the water I just drank in my mouth almost didn’t smile.
The program 猿, the financial dog’s scorn chain was appreciated before, but I didn’t expect even the babysitter to come out now.
The aunt who took care of the dog became the recognized aunt of the aunts with a momentum of 2 meters.
Recently, a scorn chain with a child’s aunt has come out. If you look closely, it’s not right, the aunt who takes the baby is not at all, shouldn’t it be harder?
You can be wrong.
I heard that there was an aunt who accompanied the pupils and children to do their homework. As a result, the drama was too deep and the high blood pressure was committed.
Therefore, students with primary school students have a slightly high-risk attribute, so they stand at the bottom of the chain of contempt.
Suddenly recalling the scene of my mother’s counseling to me in elementary school, this statement is not an exaggeration.
Speaking of the word “chain” in the circle of friends, it has been quite popular recently, and the new word of the network… is enough!
However, it is essentially anxious to sell.
The top of the food chain is worth approaching, and people with noble status should be looked up… this trampled stillThe group that is fascinating at the bottom.
Friends circle, it was originally a land of sadness.
A further scorn chain, instantly, became a beautiful and lonely adult solo.
“My circle of friends, can’t expose life”
I have a business friend who asked me to eat the other two days.
The usual work is not always seen. After he recently resigned and started his business, it is even more busy, and life is more profound.
I always feel that he is very happy, a person who is more positive.
I didn’t expect him to spit on me that day. It wasn’t long before he resigned and his father was found to have cancer.
Because the company has just taken the angel round of financing, it is ready to take the next round of financing plans.
The operation of him and his company has entered the “observation period”, and his every move is all in the eyes of investors.
In addition to dealing with the investment manager at any time to visit the business and financial situation, even the comments of the circle of friends should be cautious, after all, it is equivalent to reporting the status of the investors.
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The performance is too arrogant, giving people a feeling of not doing business.
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I don’t disclose it, and it doesn’t seem to be marketing myself, too self-closing.
Things like Dad’s serious illness should be as low-key as possible. Otherwise, the investor would think that he has the risk of retreating home to his father at any time.
So master the frequency and content of the circle of friends, and steadily brush the status of the circle of friends, it seems that the performance of the whole person is a part of his daily tasks.
The difficulty of being a public number is not much different.
But at that time, how could he be happy, the positive performance on the circle of friends, behind the pressure, the power of forbearance.
Forcing yourself to not reflect on the real state of life is to reduce unnecessary guesswork and cause misunderstandings.
Everyone is actually like stocks in the stock market, and the circle of friends is our PR.
Slightly swaying, good and bad information will affect the stock price.
No wonder more and more friends told me, “I don’t look at the circle of friends now, who will write bad things on it?”
Sending a circle of friends becomes a burden.
What a little bit of crying in the early morning, the next group of goblins were promoted, what bought P2P fell into the pit, and fell out with his boyfriend…
These parents are hurting, the enemy is fast, who dares to scream in the circle of friends, even if the dew is not dare.
Being a circle of friends, it’s getting tired.
“Friends circle, where the advertisements are sold”
A recent chat with my friend has awkward things.
She said that her son had just finished surgery and was very successful. I blame her: Let’s not tell me earlier, so happy.
She looked disdainful: Didn’t you see my circle of friends?
Suddenly, there is a feeling that the air cools down instantly.
Not just 尴尬. More is reflection – When did I start to look at my friends again?
It’s very simple, there is too little useful information in the circle of friends. Instead, advertising, advertising, advertising.
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And the style of the circle of friends who advertised is surprisingly similar.
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At least 5 in a day;
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Leather does not move at critical times: work, work, good morning, good night
There are usually product maps, personal refinements, plus a positive energy chicken soup that looks like a hot blood
There are familiar recipes, familiar tastes.
There are a lot of professional “friend circle makers”. It is estimated that the masters are given the same set of templates, and each sentence and even each expression pack are exactly the same.
At the beginning, I still saw a black one.
Later, black is too tired, just give up, simply don’t look at playing and don’t like it.
No wonder I recently chatted with a young man who earned money to buy an apartment at a young age. She said that as a micro-business, she no longer sells advertisements in a circle of friends.
What? Weishang does not sell advertisements in the circle of friends, so what does she sell?
She told me:
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I will only send out what I think and do in my business circle, and pass on values and product effects,
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But never send product ads.
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People who are interested will naturally ask.
Therefore, her blackening rate is extremely low.
Sometimes many friends admire her because of the relationship between the circle, often take the initiative to comment below.
It’s obvious that this year’s most powerful advertisement is to make others feel that you are not selling ads.
The circle of friends is no longer hardworking, but to fight for ideas and fight for wisdom.
It’s hard and wide, it’s soft and wide.
After all, the circle of friends is still a traffic show.
“Showing in the circle of friends, it is the sheep into the tiger mouth”
I have a friend who is particularly eloquent, and she really likes to share life in a circle of friends.
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Go to a luxury store in Hong Kong and get a new bag and send a circle of friends to share the joy.
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Changed a new Audi and made a haircut.
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I am not happy to buy a jewellery to ease my mood, come and show it.
Looking at her circle of friends is like watching a diary of a city, Bai Fumei. The picture was also polished with Mito software.
She recently told me that there was a classmate who had not been in contact for a long time to eat with her, and suddenly she sold her property with her. It was inexplicable, as if she was a rich woman.
My heart secretly said: You are indeed a rich woman who is a fake, if you look at your circle of friends.
She doesn’t seem to be aware of the catastrophe of her own friends, and she is still continually arguing:
” Recently, without aura, they were pulled into some bargaining groups, selling groups, and even being pulled into a diamond group. Why do they think I can afford diamonds?”
I silently returned to her: No, just because there are more diamonds in your circle.
Say, you may not know, Your circle of friends may be being captured by 1000 sales.
Take me an old colleague who is doing insurance sales, she told meIt takes at least an hour a day to research your circle of friends.
Collect new friends’ information, give praise to others, send comments to key customers, summarize the habits of each potential customer, and write a complete customer circle summary report.
Friends in the circle are everywhere.
To be honest, I now feel that I have a psychological barrier to adding WeChat.
Even if WeChat is added, the friend circle will be closed for the first time. Lest you be accidentally exposed to being a rich woman.
Before sending a circle of friends, it is sharing life, now the circle of friends is to give sales opportunities.
Share life without reservation?
Is also seen the circle of friends as its original name “moment”?
Oh, that is to find trouble for yourself.
Write at the end
Cai Kangyong was recently asked during an interview: What do you have to say to those who don’t often make friends?
He replied:
I would rather believe that they took most of their efforts to deal with real life, and I would like to congratulate them on finding the center of life.
Yes, the focus of life, to some extent, should only be for yourself.
Most of the people who spy on your life are just rational and restrained to gossip about the lives of outsiders.
Why do you have to complete this group of outsiders?
The focus of life should be placed on the maintenance of realistic social relations.
Next time, if a friend tells me, “Look, you didn’t see my circle of friends?”
I should call her back from the bottom of my heart,
“Get out of the way, circle of friends…not as good as we come out to eat.”