It is also your responsibility to not participate in this matter. If I promise you, I can’t go, you still feel that it is a thing, but it is not good for you. I will pay attention to you. If there is a chance in the future, it is ok to communicate in individual time, but I will not formally participate in your organization.
After this, there are one or two such incidents. I discovered that Liu always specializes in his own business. He has very strict screenings for various activities in the society, including invitations from some organizations. In the attitude of being responsible to others and responsible for themselves, choose to refuse or agree.
Of course, according to my observations, most of them refused. This will ensure that he concentrates on doing his own thing and running his own business, instead of participating in many activities and organizations that are larger than the content and distracting themselves. This is also a very good quality I have learned from Liu Zong.
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In the process of dealing with Liu, I felt that when he was very sincere to his friends and helped his friends, the details showed his sincerity, intention, and bluntness. Some friends are “doing fun and not doing funeral”. Sometimes they will be touted each other. When you see something that you have done wrong, you are not willing to say it. If you don’t mention it, don’t mention it, leave a face. But Liu is not like this. Liu always helps you, he is very serious and very sincere to help you. When you need to criticize you, he thinks that criticism is also helping you. This is different from many people.
There are a few things, I have been helped by him, and I have always remembered it.
First talk about the first thing. In the 1990s, we met at Shangri-La and came out from the gate after talking about things. At that time, Liu did not take the phone. I was very young at the time, just earned some money and bought a big brother. I walked all the way, called the big guy all the way, called the driver. At that time, the driver took the BB machine and didn’t have a phone call, so the driver would drive the car after I received my call to the BB.
At the entrance to the hotel, we both went out and stood there, his car, squatting and coming to the front. I am still looking for a driver.
I said, “Liu, you go first.” Liu said, “Nothing, I am waiting for you.” Then I waited for about ten minutes, and my driver got a call from the BB and drove over.
At this time, Liu always said a few words to me. He said, “Xiao Feng, this thing reflects management. You see, the driver is for us. His job is to sit here and stare. This door, when did you come out, when did he come over, this is his job. Can’t say, he is sleeping in the car, you are looking for him when you come out. In case you have important things, go down One place, is this not a mistake? From this we can see that your management is not rigorous, you have to change, and you have to be strict in the future.”
I am particularly embarrassed. I felt really at the time.