Work, regardless of whether it suits you.
”Good job” must be consistent with self-value orientation
The so-called value orientation means what kind of person do you want to be? Personally, my goal is to be a good teacher. This goal It has never changed. In my opinion, this is the most valuable. Many people are confused because they haven’t figured out what they want, or figured it out, but hesitated again in front of temptation.
I have a student who is very interesting. He thinks that being a university teacher is decent and the job is very stable. Before deciding to take the postgraduate exam, he asked me about the work situation of the university teacher to help him decide whether to continue to study as a graduate student until a doctorate or do something else. . After we finished talking, he said: “I’m not a university teacher anymore. I didn’t expect university teachers to be so busy, there are so many things, so much pressure, and the income is not high.”
I often say that primary school students write essays Eighty or ninety percent of My Dream is written as a scientist, writer, or PLA. This is actually a bad education. Actually, he doesn’t even know what a scientist is. How scientists live, how long they have to go through their research, and how hard it is, he does not know. But our education only exaggerates the glory of this job and hides other more real parts.
“Good work” should be consistent with the assessment of self-ability
Many people now feel that they have graduated from college and they can certainly do more high-end jobs, so they disdain to do those basic jobs. This involves self-assessment. Good work is not about letting you reach the level of others, but about realizing your own potential. Here I especially want to emphasize a little bit, that is character-character determines fate.
For example, there are people who are relatively outgoing, enthusiastic, energetic, and always willing to study new things. They are more flexible and can tolerate uncertainty. This is also a very important personality trait. In contrast, some people do things in a well-organized and orderly manner, but they are a bit obedient. This personality is also good for many things, such as some regular work, but it also has a big flaw, that is, creativity may not be enough and lack flexibility. In fact, China is now in a period of great changes, every day