It’s no use shouting the slogan, strength is the ultimate right to speak.
Editor’s note: This article is from the WeChat public account “ Classic Beauty “(ID: crystal_words), author Zhao Xiaoli.
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On the stage of the sixth season of “The Legend of Exotic Flowers”, Xu Jiru is undoubtedly one of the controversial novels.
From the time of appearance, she has her own halo of “beauty learner”: undergraduate Tsinghua, Harvard master, it sounds very powerful.
But this is a goddess-like figure who seems to have no dead angles in 360 degrees. With the broadcast of the program, she constantly exposes her shortcomings.
No matter how optimistic the mentors in “The Legend of Strange” are, she was even suspected that the show crew had deliberately played the episode she was eliminated in advance and tried to give her some tickets to “resurrection and return”, but the reality humiliated the audience They didn’t buy it, but Yang Qihan was resurrected, and Xu Jiru was eliminated.
(Attentive netizens discovered the playback order problem from the details ~)
Meanwhile, in the host competition, Xu Jiru exposed his lack of ability in non-science class: both the speed of speech and the control of the rhythm lacked the ability, calmness and rationality of news anchors. Finally, in the Xu Jiru was eliminated again in the game of Master Yun.
Xu Jiru on the Host Competition ~
In my opinion, Xu Jiru’s defeat stems from self-binding and consumption, and this is a more lethal factor than lack of ability.
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The so-called “self-binding” refers toIt is very easy for individuals to be restrained by external judgments and labels. They cannot really settle their mindset, and they are less able to recognize their own problems. If a person lacks self-awareness, these external evaluations and labels are more likely to form a “frame.” : TA believes that he can only be in this framework, and his behavior will be in a state of trembling, gains and losses, restraint and straitjackets.
How destructive is “self-binding”?
For example.
For example, some people use “gentle” for self-promotion, and they will think from the bottom of their hearts that because I am gentle, I can never get angry, let alone negative emotions.
In this case, in the case of stress or conflict, they can only tolerate it blindly. Because negative emotions cannot be properly dispatched, these people can easily become “internal injuries”, such as depression at the spiritual level. , Physical diseases, and so on.
Let’s take a look back at Xu Jiru’s story in “The Legend of Qi Bi”. It is not difficult to find that her appearance has been labeled as a “beauty student”!
I remember when I first introduced Xu Jiru, Yang Qihan sighed: “It ’s definitely Xu Jiru to let five young people represent the country at the United Nations.” , She speaks to make people willing to listen “…
Look, Tsinghua Xueba, Master of Harvard Kennedy School, and unanimous pursuit from mentor to debater, if it is put in any TV series, isn’t it a proper “protagonist halo”?
But unfortunately, behind this “protagonist halo”, there is a kind of self-abduction that “can only win but not lose.”
Xu Jiru’s “The Legend of Qi Bi”, whether it is debate or kicking, always feels tight. She frowns and speaks fast, but it is clear that she lacks empathy in emotion and cannot let The audience’s substitutions were also negligent in terms of logic, and even dumbfounded by Teacher Hu during the opening bars.
Unbroken brows ~
If you look closely at her expression again, it’s not difficult to notice subtle changes.
In the first debate with Yang Qihan in 1V1, at the beginning Xu Jiru had the upper hand. It was expected that Yang Qihan was pulled back to the city by the last bar. At that time, her expression was extremely unnatural until the instructor “stayed behind” When I learn that I can stayOnly when I break my tears;
Xu Jiru was later appreciated by Professor Xue Zhaofeng and became captain;
However, in the debate “I always like 996, or 886”, her speech did not touch the audience at all. When Luo Zhenyu sent the team the only “Unacceptable Card”, she chose to accept it. Because she wants to win too much;
Under this kind of “only win but not lose” mentality, she chose the seemingly weakest teacher Hu PK. This move caused discomfort for Cai Kangyong and many audiences, and ended up losing out by a large score. .
In my opinion, Xu Jiru ’s failure is closely related to this kind of self-abduction. This kind of abduction has made Xu Jiru suffer from pain and suffering, anxiety, and loss of valuable truth and cuteness. It seems too harsh and lacks intimacy.
(Feeling a sense of vision like a commuter ~)
No wonder some netizens commented on Xu Jiru’s fierce energy and said, “She is too much like the elementary school teacher in the face of poor students, high above him.”
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Also talk about self-consumption.
If Xu Jiru was abducted by herself, she could n’t let go to the more entertaining “The Legend of Quiz”, then her performance in “Host Contest” reflects another problem, that is, The lack of ability brought by blind self-consumption is an important source of her retreat!
Without the “No Death Gold Medal” from “Amazing Story”, on a stage that emphasizes professionalism, Xu Jiru’s performance can’t stand professional considerations. Kang Hui said: I think she’s a bit messy, and the audience can detect it Then, in terms of time control and other details, Xu Jiru is really difficult to be called “professional.”
Soon, the audience questioned Xu Jiru’s ability and level.
According to netizens, Xu Jiru was still in his speech in the 21st centuryTsinghua was studying, and she was still working in the law firm when Orator, but when she stepped on the stage of The Story of the Exotic, Host Competition, she was all alone: she cut off her own path and resigned from the law firm The work of selling online courses is also badly reviewed. Let’s look at the number of fans on major social platforms. After frequent consumption of variety shows, most of them are damaged.
(Comments from old fans ~)
This way of earning fast money while taking advantage of the situation is undoubtedly a great self-consumption.
In these years, she is as passionate about various online disk variety shows as she is, and she started to receive various advertisements (some are suspected to have no products). She is so anxious to monetize, but unfortunately, except for the past The blessing of the “Undergraduate Tsinghua, Harvard Master”, she can let the audience remember her, really lacking.
More netizens broke the news that Xu Jiru is not a “Harvard Master of Law”, as she is not advocating externally. She is studying at Harvard Kennedy School, and her graduate major is public policy. Xu Jiru does not have a lawyer’s qualification certificate. After passing the exam many times, he failed. He was not a “lawyer” at all, and it was nothing more than a person with a legal education background.
A long time of graduation, few grades, relying on the reputation and aura of the consumer alma mater to brave themselves, and there is no substantial progress in ability and strength. This is why many people are disgusted or even ridiculed.