The bus goes home. The length of time is not as long as expected due to the cross-regional extension. Even in the rush hour, the traffic is smooth, there are two or three passengers, and the getting on and off is not frequent. The driver can pass the station comfortably without stopping. I am familiar with it for about half an hour. Get off at the bus stop. After getting on the bus, read the site map on this bus carefully. The last stop you came was “Jiangmen Station”. It seems that after the hub is built, there will only be more and more choices no matter whether it is going out or coming back, but the current supporting conditions for connection need to be perfected, which is quite good.
Second, the surrounding scenery
At this time last year, many people were still worried about masks and panic about the spread of the epidemic. At the time of the Spring Festival, in the streets of Jiangmen, you can clearly see the delicate facial features of most pedestrians. Everyone is enjoying the fresh air, especially the sky is clear.
Because of the industry I work in, I am accustomed to wearing masks tightly in places other than my residence. When I returned here, I was classified as a different kind. I actually enjoy wearing a mask. First, it hides my unconfident appearance, and second, it covers my mouth when talking to myself, especially when I want to curse.
At the time of the New Year’s 30th reunion, just after the night, the table was feasting, preparing to watch the year-awaited Spring Festival Gala, volunteers in yellow vests were still at the intersection where scattered passers-by were running, following the changing rhythm of traffic lights Decide whether the “You are the best” sign in your hand is up or down. Early in the morning, after a night of partying, many people could still lie in bed lazily on the first day of the new year. Volunteers were following the traffic police to maintain order on the road at the intersection I saw. The scene was not lively.
Suddenly remembered that when I was undergraduate, there were data that Jiangmen’s registered volunteers ranked fourth in Guangdong, but Jiangmen’s permanent population only ranked tenth in Guangdong. In the past, when I watched Jiangmen TV at home, I would often play an advertisement in which a young couple helped push disabled people in wheelchairs uphill.
In real life, I have also witnessed many such helping scenes. Many family gatherings, aunts who believe in Buddhism will talk about who and who go to do volunteer work in temples. Helping others has become a daily routine in the city.
This bank of the Pengjiang River is the Pengjiang “ancient area” that retains a row of beautifully decorated arcades in the Republic of China, and the other bank is the “old area” of the river and sea that combines development and environmental protection. Jiangmen’s urban development has been extended for a long time, but the Sanxisanxu Street, Qimingli and Changdi areas in the old city center are areas immune to “demolition” and absolutely “real estate”.
The deepest memory of Qiming is more than ten years agoIn the first three years of primary school in the demolished campus, it was not a pleasant time, and it was the only way to go shopping with grandparents on weekends and holidays. There was no anger for a long time. Many businesses came and went, and these overseas Chinese houses have been there.
But recently, there have been many actions in the government’s “revitalization” of Qiming. It is not a simple renovation. It puts a lot of thought into cultural conservation, cultural creation, investment promotion, and every time I go home through the Pengjiang Bridge, this place always attracts my attention. It is like a characteristic cultural attraction.
Although the “old districts” on the other side of the river and the sea tower over high-rise residential buildings, office buildings, and large squares, the green plants, greenways, parks, etc. along the embankment of the Pengjiang River are completely unaffected and destroyed. The green corridor, the air is pleasant, and the eyes are extremely comfortable.
I especially like the footpath bridges over several parks. The design is very good. My mother always regretted not buying a house here and missed the opportunity. I hope that one day my mother’s wish to buy a house will be fulfilled.
Three, become a guest
Returning home, for me, is about going home. I usually call it a “rental place” when I return from get off work. It is not emotional, and because of the messy surrounding environment, it is even more unfavorable, but it is where I stay outside of my work.
But for going home, I am looking forward to and looking forward to the changes over there, and also want to meet the expectations of my parents; I am also relieved that last year due to the epidemic, I could not return to school and stay at home for half a year, and now people enjoy their solitary space even more in a different place. , I also hope that my mother will have more time to embrace her life besides holding on to me. She is also nervous about the unknown, and after bidding farewell to the elderly, she does not know what the family relationship will be like.
Now it’s no longer like a kite with fun and freedom like when I was a student, especially lost in the wind and I can go home at any time. So when I got home, I became the Taiwan pop singer Wei Li’an’s 2020 album “Sound of My Life” “The tenant” in “. “The most familiar place has become a guest room, and I have become a guest. The most strange place has become a daily life, and you have become my bag… When will I stay this time, Maybejust tomorrow, maybe until next weekend.”
Pull a small suitcase home, go home and re-check the surrounding environment. The original items in the room have been reordered under the family logic. I can’t find the original toothbrush. I take a brand new one and use it next time. It can still be used when I come back, and when will I go back?
Compared with friendsDirectly with your mobile phone at the dinner table.
From the interpretation of the language description of his family and friends over the years: Under the family tradition and the requirements of his parents, he has studied medicine-related majors and worked in a unit that is not a large hospital but can bring a stable income. After living with his parents, all aspects of life are still being taken care of. In marriage, we arrange rounds of blind dates according to family background and family preferences.
But this aspect alone seemed to be a flaw in his family. He was criticized by his family as “critical”. He has not completed the major events of his life so far. He has rejected one after another with “no feeling”. His father seemed to be a little discouraged to say that it was a man who got married.
On the aspect of marriage and love, my own interpretation is inconsistent. I think that as he grows older and matures in his thoughts, he knows what is like and what is appropriate. It is not purely based on family background to make choices. After all, the other half is with him. In the second half of his life, it is him, not his family, although the combination of two persons in the current situation is almost equal to the combination of two families. Perhaps I am also affected by views such as freedom to follow personal choice.
The generation gap between multiple generations, offensive and rebellious views, and more and more issues related to interests. It is because I am getting older. Although I am greedy for freedom, I have to take on more and more responsibilities. Facing.
Fifth, don’t want to stop in this beautiful place
The first 22 years of my life are basically spent in this land of Jiangmen. Many nutrients will permeate my soul for a lifetime. There are too many I can rely on. When I tried to come out, I found that a bit of wildness in my long-repressed nature was released, and the steps I could take were beyond the original limits.
But after all, they are the only child in the family. My family hopes that I will stay by their side, but they were also very young when they drifted from the field to Jiangmen to start a new life. This restless blood may be passed on. Will I change my course next, I don’t know, I will follow the trend and change accordingly.
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