Only by discarding the extra things can you know yourself more clearly and you can temper your instinct.
Editor’s note: This article is from WeChat public account “Socket Academy” (ID: chazuomba ), author | Zi Hou editor | Cui Shu.
A few days ago, I finished reading a book written by the Japanese writer Yamashita Hideo. There is a paragraph in the book that is very touching: “Self-discipline is the philosophy of life in addition; it is the philosophical principle of subtraction. If you throw away the extra things, you can understand yourself more clearly, and you can temper your instinct.
Observing those successful people around me, I found that they all have one thing in common: Extremely focused.
The more successful people, the more they let go; the better people, the more they know how to focus.
30-year-old job search rejected:Not knowing what to focus on, hard work is just not working hard
Sufficiently focused, so it’s getting simpler, extremely eager, and unrelenting.
In order to find a job, my friend Hu Jiao’s head is ruined. At the beginning of the year, the company was streamlined, and the department where Laohu was located was dissolved. Laohu also fell from the white-collar workers envied by others to the workplace wanderers.
I thought that I still have so many years of experience in the battle, and I still feel complacent in my heart. But when it comes to competitive interviews, he discovers that under the cruel employment environment, it is all like him – so-called rich experience, but no one.
The 30-year-old Lao Hu has tossed a lot in these years. After graduation, foreign companies, state-owned enterprises, small companies, and even entrepreneurs have constantly changed their direction, but they have not understood what they want.
A few days ago, he and I said with emotion: “There was no focus on one direction in the past few years, and it took time. If you can concentrate on one skill, it is definitely better than now.”
The more impetuous, the simpler it is. Streamlining your dreams and going to one place is often more important than chasing the chasing.
Young actor Zhang Yishan, who is young but has already advanced to the strength of the entertainment circle, “old drama.” Many people just saw the aura of the child star above his head, but did not know the transformation from the child star to the old bones.
At the age when most people are confused, he begins to focus on acting.
He said frankly: “I feel that I am destined to be an actor, so no matter what, I will always be determined.”
There was a period of time, high-density work, seamless notifications, so that he could only sleep 3-4 hours a day, repeated rehearsals, let him get tired and breathless.
When filming “The Sin”, the stomach disease for many years even turned into a gallbladder polyp, which was once in the bathroom. When the parents heard the sound coming over, they found that he had completely fainted.
The so-called young fame is just to learn to concentrate at a very early age, refuse temptation, and focus on deep cultivation.
The sooner you focus on your deep-rooted field, the sooner you get it.
The fastest shortcut in the workplace:See the goal, hard work
Sufficiently focused, so I am more willing to pay for it and do it.
Knowing there is a hot question: Is there really a shortcut in the workplace?
Among them, there is a high-sound answer that says: The quickest shortcut in the workplace is to look at the goal, calm down, and practice hard.
One year after graduation, Xunzi University has changed three jobs. Some time ago, I said that I would resign to start a business. Let me give him some advice. I asked him a question: What do you think is irreplaceable? He hangs for a long time, and finally speechless.
Young friends, too many people are eager to achieve rapid success in millions of years, but they don’t know that high wages are bound to be an irreplaceable alternative.
So, when you have nothing to do, the fastest way to grow is to lean over and take care of one thing to the extreme.
The workplace is a long-distance running, and finally laughs, certainly not the one that rushed to the front.
So you only need to set your goals, adjust your rhythm, and work hard.
Established as the “God of Tempura” in the Japanese food industry, he and the god of sushi, Onojiro, and the god of carp, Kimbe and Jiro, and called the three gods of Japanese cuisine. (Note: Tempura is a dish fried with batter, one of the four Japanese dishes)
From the age of 15 in Tokyo, the first contact with tempura, and now for nearly 60 years, he put all his energy on the tempura . Now, 73-year-old A- and B-girls still work 10 hours a day, and the last one after work.
Select from ingredients, to knife cut, oil temperatureEarly Essence has long been familiar with her heart. Even if the sound of the mixing, the sound of the oil pan, and the sound of the food are subtly changed, he can know the state of the ingredients.
Tempura has become an art in the hands of A and B female philosophers. What really teaches people is not that he finally sealed God, but that he can only do one thing for the rest of his life.
Life Positioning says: “Being the job is just the first step, you have to find a way to let others know that you can do a good job.”
A quiet person, whoever does things to the extreme, is indispensable in any place.
Those who are arrogant, all know how to refuse temptation and work hard.
Sufficiently focused, so know how to refuse, focus on one place, and focus more.
Understanding the refusal is the cultivation that must be done in life. The workplace is full of choices. Only by learning to refuse, can you concentrate on one place and go faster and faster.
Small big week recently asked me to cry: Why is his life so bad? Everything can’t keep up with the opportunity, and the living produces a joke in everyone’s eyes.
After graduating, Da Zhou entered the top companies in the domestic communications industry, but could not stand the solidification of the big business process. Looking at the Internet, the brain is rushing in.
Finding for two or three years to figure out how to play inside, doing a little bit of improvement. Last year, under the encouragement of friends, I went to share the charging treasure. As a result, I entered the market late, and after the bubble burst, I lost hundreds of thousands. Now I am considering whether to do social e-commerce.
Either communication electronics or the Internet industry, it was the most promising at that time, and the result was that he was beaten by a good hand.
He and I lamented: If you can refuse the temptation of the bubble at that time, if you insist on doing it in any industry, you must already be full.
If you don’t know how to refuse temptation, you can’t concentrate; if you don’t focus, how can you stand out?
Successful people, not every time they can step on the vent, but after he chooses, they can reject all the temptations of the outside world and bury their heads.
Alibaba Group Executive Vice President Cai Chongxin, because the low-key is not well known, he is known as the man behind Ma Yun, Alibaba deserved the number two.
Before joining Ali in 1999, Cai Chongxin worked for an investment company with an annual salary of 5.8 million. At that time, Ma Yun could only give him a monthly salary of 500 yuan, but Cai ChongThe letter is firmly following.
Yale University’s Doctor of Laws Halo, the work experience of the top US law firms, there are countless choices in front of him these years, and there are countless millions of annual salary offer, he is not moved. In the end, Ali went public and he became famous.
“The Road to Less People” warns us: “Defer the sense of satisfaction, learn to be bitter and sweet, and have enough self-control to avoid the evil consequences of consciousness.”
People who know how to refuse must be able to go further because they believe that they are bitter and sweet.
Learn to refuse, it is a kind of courage. Those who dare to refuse and who are determined to be their own can walk more firmly and farther in their own choices.
Focus: The best practice in youth
Gradwell puts it in “The Alien”: “The genius in the eyes of people is extraordinary, not a supernatural person, but a continuous effort. Ten thousand hours of tempering is anyone. The necessary conditions to become a world-class master from the ordinary.”
Any success is the result of tempering. Life is limited, only know how to let go, learn to focus, you can go faster.
The more successful people, the more they will give up; the better people, the more they know how to focus. Learn to give up, in order to have more choices; learn to focus, in order to achieve the efficiency of life.
You are willing to work hard in the workplace.
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