Some experience in doing things, doing business, and being a person.
Editor’s note: This article is from WeChat public account “Feng Lunfeng Ma Niu” (ID: fengluntalk)< /a>, author Feng Lun.
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文|Feng Lun (WeChat public number: Feng Lunfeng Ma Niu)
July 5 is my birthday.
When I got up that morning, I received a WeChat from my daughter. “Happy birthday to Dad!
Look, I sent you a birthday present.
I looked around and didn’t see anything.
Just ask her, “I didn’t see anything, where?
She replied to me, “Look at the public number.
So I opened the public number and looked at it.
My heart said, hey, how did you write an article?
The article she wrote is called “Dad 60’s.
I finished watching it in one go. I feel a little dizzy after reading it, I didn’t think of it, I was very touched, and It was a bit confusing.
Why are you confused? According to the way we operate the “old cannons”, this kind of private affairs and family affairs should not be made online and get outside. I have been so persistent in the past few decades. This is written and sent to the Internet, I feel a little uncomfortable.
When we met in the afternoon, I told her about my thoughts.
I said, “Why do you get your business online?
I know it everywhere.
Birthday, the family will have a meal together.
She said, “I am responsible for new media now.Do things related to communication.
I found that how the previous generation communicated with the next generation, or between the father and the daughter, and the father and the son, is a very important thing at the moment, and it also makes many people confused.
Many families have had problems communicating with each other for two generations. Because of poor communication, there has been a gap, life has become unpleasant, and the development of the business has been affected. So I want to write a journey of my heart, on the one hand, to give you a birthday surprise, on the other hand, to share with everyone.
I said, “That is the way you think about this generation.
Of course, maybe she is right, so I accepted it.
that day,
Some friends who saw the article also curiously asked me, “How do you respond if your daughter writes an article so carefully and wishes you a happy birthday?”
I think, as a father, the most important thing is to give my daughter some guidance on life and career. I hope she will develop better and live farther in life and career.
Therefore, I shared with her the nine experiences of doing things, doing business, and being a man.
Two days ago, I recalled our conversations, sorted them out, and shared them with everyone.
1, the first one, first counts right and wrong, then counts gains and losses.
Doing business, every day will be settled, money will come in and out, more and less, you lose me to earn, I lost you earned, and I am calculating every day.
However, when calculating accounts, we tend to pay attention to financial, financial, and detail matters, but ignore the need to count another account, that is right and wrong – whether the money should be taken, is it right, is it in line with values?
As far as my experience is concerned, it is more important than gains and losses.
Before you bargain with others, you can count right and wrong first, then you can get the right and wrong according to your own values, in accordance with the legal direction of compliance, in accordance with the ethical method of supply and demand, you can be right every time. In the direction. Even if you lose a little money and eat a little, you can find it back in the long run. And because you count right and wrong, the company can live for a long time, and finally it will not suffer. Therefore, to do business, the first one is to calculate the right and wrong before the calculation of the right and wrong, to avoid the loss and forget the right and wrong.
2, the second, usually than the pursuit, the wartime is lower than the bottom line.
In the process of doing business, there are inevitably contradictions, sometimes unpleasant, and sometimes even a lawsuit with people.
When encountering these problems, you must remember one sentence, called “usually more than pursuit, wartime is better than the bottom line.”
What does that mean?
Under normal circumstances, everyone competes, actually than the pursuit, than the values, than