Being reassuring is the highest level of the workplace.
Editor’s note: This article is from WeChat public account “Socket Academy” (ID: chazuomba ), author Ye Chaoren.
There is a person in the workplace, is always unpleasant
You must have met someone in your work. Working with him, you always feel insecure. You can’t help but remind him of some details, because if you don’t say it, he will definitely be wrong. Most of the time, you are afraid, because you have to fill it up at any time.
My former colleague Kim Min Jong is a new media editor. She has a strong ability to tell stories and is good at writing touching words. However, her shortcomings are also very prominent: she is more casual at work, does not like timely feedback, and has detailed problems.
I have to say that every time I am in charge of the article push with the group, my heart is broken. I don’t know why, there are always a variety of bugs that she is responsible for, and the same problem recurs.
For example, one day, we spent this way. She gave me a preview at 9 o’clock in the evening and told me that I was all ok. I opened it and found that the ends of each piece were indented, which was wrong. The problem is that there is no way to adjust the background.
Unfortunately, I had to clear the format and reorder. According to her speed, the rearrangement is estimated to be 2 am, and maybe there is a new bug. So that night, I had 8 overtime classes and I went to 12 am.
One more time, I met with friends, she let me rest assured that I was able to make it. I really believe it. As a result, she returned home at 10 pm and asked her how she finished. She told me that the APP backstage website could not be opened and tossed for two hours.
“What? I haven’t been on the stage yet?” I communicated with her for half an hour before I discovered that the original website was blocked.
When I finished the APP, I started to read her article in today’s platoon. I thought that today I can save my peace of mind, but I still hope that the audio is misplaced, the source is wrong, and the end of the article is wrong. ……
If you say, what is the biggest gain from working with Kim Min Jong? I think it should be, you will really realize deeply how important it is to be a reliable person.
Working for 3 years, dealing with colleagues of all styles. Some of my colleagues have no personality, but they have a good ability. At this time, I will choose to endure his shortcomings. Not necessarily friends, but can cooperate; some colleagues do not have enough ability, but he is willing to reflect, learn, and do better each time. Such a person, I am willing to give him time to grow up with him.
But, in all fairness, what makes me unacceptable is gold.Hey such a colleague. Working with them often feels tired and tired, because you have to fill them up again and again.
So, be a reliable person, not only for yourself, but also for colleagues around you.
I have heard the best award, is “a person worth entrusting”
In love, when we want to spend the rest of our lives with the other, it is often accompanied by a judgment: whether it is worth entrusting.
In fact, in the workplace, the word is also sufficient. It can even be said that this is the best compliment to people.
“My Agent and My Agent” is a live-action reality show that has recently been broadcasted. It records some artists and agents, and the behind-the-scenes work content can be said to be the true portrayal of most people in the workplace.
The four agents in the film gave me the biggest feeling: worth paying.
1, Qiao Xin agent Hao Hao: In the workplace, work is always the first.
Qiao Xin faces the problem of whether to cancel the contract with the company. Hao Hao knows that she is not willing to face it, so she took the opportunity to mention this matter and constantly pushed her to make a decision. Hao Hao knows very well that as a broker, the first consideration must be the career of Qiao Xin, not the emotion.
In the workplace, some people will lower the standard of doing things in order to take care of their colleagues’ emotions. In fact, this is not true. In the company, the most important thing is always to do a good job, not a good relationship.
2, Zhang Yuxi’s agent, Yuya: Learn to change positions and work will be simpler.
Although the boss clearly told Yuya that Zhang Yuxi should emphasize the predicament of the current market, Yuya chose a softer way of communication, and the curve saved the country to achieve its goal.
In the workplace, it is inevitable to work with people. How to make colleagues more willing to cooperate with you? When you learn to empathize and think about problems from the perspective of the other side, there are often unexpected effects.
3, Baiyu propaganda broker Qi Zi: More important than hard work, it can be a success.
Qi Zi is a very hard-working girl, but she has tried her best to write a plan that was approved by the boss.
Even, because she was not responding quickly enough in some jobs, she was at risk of being replaced.
But she resolutely refused to accept the loss, and finally won the trust for herself in the preparation of the Baiyu birthday party.
Many timesEfforts do not necessarily have good results. Before you start doing things, you should first define your goals, then set goals, break down tasks, find resources, and die, so that you can succeed.
4, Zhu Yawen agent one baby: the more successful people, the more attention to detail.
The company decided to discuss Zhu Yawen’s development direction together. One baby made a detailed PPT report in advance; entered the conference room with Yawen and walked in front to help him pull the stool; at the summary meeting, he shared the media group to Yawen. When I was impressed, I didn’t deliberately read “apply greasy”…
Zhu Yawen said that without a baby, he will not have today’s results. And a baby can go to today, can not do without her pursuit of details.
Becoming a worthy person is not a one-off event. But in these four directions, your efforts will be more effective.
One person’s greatest ability, is to make people feel at ease
When a person thinks you are worthy of entrustment, the basis behind it is: You do things, I am at ease.
A truly professional person, once started to do something, will be responsible for the end, and the best in the scope of ability.
The CEO of Luo Ji Thinking has not shared a story:
The columnist who got the APP, Shuai Shuai, found that she was pregnant shortly after signing the contract.
Before I heard this news, I was worried more than joy. She worried that the body of Xiang Shuai could not bear a huge workload.
But very quickly, she knew she was too worried. Because Xiang Shuai’s approach can be described as “彪悍”.
On one occasion, Xiang Shuai should go to get a live broadcast. Everyone can see that she is very uncomfortable, but she said it doesn’t matter. The live broadcast will last for an hour and will definitely persist.
She behaved like a singer in the live broadcast, and almost no users can see that this is a pregnant woman who is suffering from extreme discomfort.
Because it was just over, she said that she must go to the hospital immediately. Unexpectedly, after the first hospital, the hospital thought it was too serious and directly recommended to the larger hospital.
From that night on, Xiang Shuai must stay in bed until the child is born.
In this process, Xiang Shuai updated the course by lying in bed, turning her doctorate into text, and then finishing the text before recording.
It’s been until she has a baby, and she doesn’t take it very seriously.She: No, you can’t update the course anymore. You can announce the stop and wait for your body to adjust and continue. This is completely understandable to the user.
But the handsome Shuai refused, she invited her husband, the famous economist Xu Yuan, to make a meal for the user for a month, and wait for her to recover, then I will talk about this month. Make up again.
The example of Xiang Shuai can be said to be the best footnote of “one person is worth to pay”. While working hard at the same time, “by the way” to have a child, this thing for ordinary people, may not even think about it.
In this process, you may experience a lot of pain and suffering, but they will never regard the difficulty as a reason to relax, because overcoming difficulties and accomplishing goals is a duty in their view.
I believe that after experiencing such a thing, no matter what happens in the future, I will not hesitate to trust Xiang Shuai because the person in front of me is absolutely reassuring.
Many companies have a standard for selecting talents: to be stable. Behind stability and reassurance, there is the same principle: certainty.
Works are complex and face new difficulties at any time. At this time, people who need certainty, no matter what obstacles they encounter, they can do their best, and the things that are done well will not be less.
Working with reassurance is the highest level of the workplace.
Reference:Get the regular meeting March 5th, “Can we learn from the teacher who got the department?”