The best friend lives opposite, and the favorite person is there.

Editor’s note: This article is from WeChat public account “porridge left Luo” (ID: fangdushe520), the author Wen Qijun.

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This year is the 25th anniversary of the launch of Friends.

Started on September 22, 1994, “Friends” broadcast a total of 236 episodes in ten seasons, collecting classics and touching seasons. It carries the youth of a whole generation and is a common memory of a generation. At the end of “Friends” on May 6, 2004, 52.5 million people in the United States watched the finale and bid farewell to their 10 years old friends.

As the most popular TV series in history, “Friends” is nominated for the Emmy Awards up to 62 times. It ranked first in the 100 most popular American dramas selected by the American authoritative media “Hollywood Report”.

Not only in the United States, but also in China, this drama is no different. Nearly 800,000 people scored on the watercress, and each season’s watercress score was above 9.6.

The Big Bang tributes to it, Love Apartment imitates it, but no sitcom can surpass it.

The first time I watched “Friends” from college, I can’t remember how many times I saw it. This little purple apartment propped up all my illusions about friendship and love.

How I wish to be like the six people in Friends –

The best friend lives opposite, and the person you love is there.

They live together for six people, experiencing ups and downs, from youthful ignorance to middle-aged maturity.

They also grew up with me, accompanied me into the society, accompanied me in my life, and was the oldest friend who accompanied me for the longest time.

About friendship, about love, about self, about life, the life I understand, all in this drama.

01,We are each other’s shimmer,lighting the darkness of life

The best friendship is not “we are all the same”, but when we are different, we still respect each other and support each other.

Monica, who is eager to win and loves to care for people, Rachel, who is self-satisfied and independent of fashion, Phoebe, eccentric and sincere and kind, Ross, who is sturdy and gentle and considerate, is afraid of commitment and humorous Chandler, greedy and lovable Joey.

Everyone in the play is not perfect, they are so different from each other, but they are slowly becoming friends because of various opportunities. The huge difference in personality and identity does not prevent them from relying on each other and taking care of each other.

When Monica was expelled from the restaurant, five other people accompanied her, giving her a hug and being uncomfortable with her;
  When Chandler fell in love, everyone surrounded him, encouraged him to cheer up, and took him out of the shadow of lovelorn;
  Pheobe didn’t have the courage to see her father who had never met before, everyone was with her and gave her courage;

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When Joey’s role was cut off by the screenwriter, he was sullen at home and refused to go out to see people. Friends were coming to comfort him;

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The best friendship is to stand with you and support your dreams. Maybe my support is trivial, but I will do my best.

One episode of six people collectively pooled money to buy lottery tickets. At the time, Chandler was waiting for the employment of the new job, and he was upset. Before the lottery draw, everyone will make a wish to win the prize.

Joey whispered to Chandler that his wish was not to win the lottery, but that Chandler could get the job he wanted.

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The best friendship is that even if your thoughts are not worth mentioning to others, good friends will still put it in the most important position.

Joey, who has no meat and no joy, never believes in causal reincarnation. But in order to make pregnant Pheobe safely eat meat and supplement nutrition, he resolutely quit all meat, instead of Phoebe vegetarian, until Pheobe produced.

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Pheobe was a child when he was a child. The only toy was a waste carton. She always admired the girl on the street who had a pink bicycle. When Ross learned the story, he secretly went to buy a bicycle for Pheobe, satisfying the childhood dreams that Pheobe had hidden in his heart.

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Pheobe saw that the dead Christmas tree was disposed of at Christmas, and it was hard to accept. The friends made up a lie in good faith and told her that all the Christmas trees would have a good home. In order to make Pheobe happy, they did not pick a better Christmas tree, but bought all the dead Christmas trees.

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The best friendship is to do countless ridiculous stupid things together.. The youth who have made mistakes and made mistakes are the exclusive memories of good friends.

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Chandler and Joey in the living room of “Family Walls”

Chandler, while portraying his future life, did not forget to arrange for Joey: he had to build a room in the garage and let Joey care for the elderly. It’s really moving to smile and cry.

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Either a love job, a marriage or a child, in the past ten years, six old friends have participated in all the important moments of their lives.

Love will disperse, people will be divided and become their own passengers in life. But friends are a lifetime.

Even if the world is against you, good friends will always give you a hug. When you are crying, good friends will accompany you to cry, giving you the shoulders you can rely on. When you are lost and helpless, they are like a glimmer of light, in every darkness, no matter where you want to fly, you can quietly illuminate for you.

There are so many ups and downs in the life, canThere are three or five friends who are accompanied by enough to resist the dark moments in life.

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02,We’re going aroundLooking for the only one

In the “Friends” about love, there are many things to watch. To talk about the most affectionate feelings, it must be Ross and Rachel. Ross has always been crazy about Rachel, but he has constantly missed the confession with Rachel, letting the audience follow for a long time.

Ross later talked about a subject, Julie. When two people wanted to live together, Ross learned that Rachel fell in love with himself. He has to choose between Julie and Rachel, very tangled. Under Chandler and Joey’s majesty, he confused his mind and compared the strengths and weaknesses of the two with a score. He wanted to decide who to be with.

Three people gave Rachel a bunch of shortcomings: silly big sister, spending money, just a coffee shop waiter…

When the other two asked him what’s wrong with Julie, he said sadly: She’s not Rachel.

Julie is not Rachel, whom he loves. This is Julie’s only shortcoming, but it is also the most deadly in love.

Love is like this, never makes sense, there is no logic at all. It only relies on one heart.

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Scientific and highly educated scientist Ross, doing stupid things in front of Rachel –

He accompanied her when Rachel was sad and took the initiative to give up the opportunity he had dreamed of;

He even mistakenly called the bride’s name as Rachel at his wedding;

He took the initiative to drink nausea lard just to prove his love to Rachel;

He is so strong, he will deliberately lose to Rachel. When Joey and Chandle were indignant because of losing money, Ross just said faintly: “Hey, how happy she is…”

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Rachel was going to work in Paris, and Ross was very sad. But seeing Rachel’s expectations for the future, despite his heartbreaking, Ross still resisted the heart and supported Rachel.

When you love someone, you want to make her happy, even if you need to sacrifice your own happiness.

Rachel is already ready to get married when he finds himself still in love with Ross. She was desperate to get on the plane and went to the wedding scene to tell Ross that she loved him. But when she stood in front of Ross and saw Ross kissing the prospective bride, she held back.

She came from thousands of miles away and only said “Congratulations”. This is one of the most touching shots in the whole drama. Under the understatement of “Congratulations”, how sad it is, all the fans of old friends are watching.

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What is the best love? It is the happiness of the other party. As long as you are happy, then I have no regrets.

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It’s equally astounding, and there’s the pair of Pheobe and Mike.

Mike’s heartThere is a shadow of marriage, and I have already made up my mind not to get married, but his love for Pheobe has gradually changed his mind:

He is no longer afraid of marriage. He regards all the quirks in her as a good adventure. He feels that he is the luckiest person in the world and eventually entered the marriage hall with Pheobe.

Love, changed a person.

When Pheobe fell in love with Mike, all the hardships in her life had vanished. She has had a lover, a family, and a complete home. She told Mike at the wedding:

“In my growth, I didn’t have true fatherly love and maternal love, or a normal family like everyone else. I always knew that I was missing something. But now, I am standing here, I know I have gotten Everything I need. You are my family.”

Love, healed two people.

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Pheobe found the beloved Mike, Chandler had Monica, and at the end, Rachel returned to Ross.

In ten years, the love of everyone in the play is going around. They have talked a lot about love, but they have not settled down because they are looking for the only one in their minds.

They told us for ten years:

In order to find the one, I am willing to do my best.

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I have traveled to many places and have seen the bridge.Many times, I have drunk a lot of wine. I said that all the bridges, clouds, and wine are not as good as you.

03,They all say that I am a shoe,but I want to be a hat

The six people in “Friends” have done what we want but can’t do:

Be brave to be yourself and love your love.

From the glamorous Missy to the ordinary people, my life is my master –

Rachel didn’t want his life to be manipulated. He married a wedding dress on his wedding day and turned to Monica.

When she called her father, she said:

“In my life, everyone has been telling me: You are a shoe. But what if I don’t want to be a shoe? If I want to be a bag or a hat?” p>

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Rachel, who didn’t want to be the “shoes” in the eyes of others, has since cut off all sources of income and opened up all his own lives.

She used to be a little princess in a wealthy family, spoiled, even the washing machine would not be used, and Ross would help.

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In order to be herself, she started from the bottom and worked tirelessly.

Cooking coffee for the first time, finding a job for the first time, giving a plate for the first time, receiving a bill for the first time, grabbing a washing machine for the first time, resigning for the first time…

After a lot of first time, Rachel finally succeeded in entering the fashion industry she loves and became a career elite.

Drunk yourself coolly, don’t care about the worldly eyes–

Pheobe and Rachel once ran together, and when they ran, Rachel found that Pheobe was very ugly, like a big cock. Rachel is afraid of othersI don’t dare to run with her. But Pheobe told Rachel:

When running, the feeling of rushing forward to the leg seems to be broken, like when you are young, you have to run to swing, or to hide your neighbor’s dog.

The pleasure of running out of the way is to release your own nature and to be free and unrestrained.

You run so fast, those passers-by can’t even see you even when you look at them. Why do you care about their eyes?

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Pheobe There is a gold medal original song “Smelly Cat”, which is written on the street stray cat. Even if the advertising company came to the door to give her a high reward, she did not want to turn it into a commercial song, insisting on keeping the song simple and simple.

When she participated in the event, she sang to the children. All of them sang songs that showed the truth of the truth. Even if they were questioned or even stopped by the organizers, she would not change her original intentions. She only wanted to be the cool singer who sang the truth.

Never deny yourself from the eyes of the world, and not change yourself because of the temptation of money. This is what the cool girl Pheobe taught us.

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Play The same is true of the other four people, bravely chasing themselvesThe heart loves, even if it pays for it, it does not hesitate:

Ross loved dinosaurs since he was a child. When he grew up, he became a paleontologist;

Monica likes to cook, and later became the head chef of a fine restaurant;

Joey loves to perform, and even excites Al Pacino as a hip substitute.

Chandler gave up the high-paying data analysis work, and started the advertising industry from the intern…

Just like Phoebe’s exaggerated and unparalleled running posture, just like Chandler re-selecting his favorite job, just like Rachel turns from a little princess into an independent adult, being himself is so different, cool and awkward; be yourself, It’s so happy and happy, it’s like the wind.

Selecting your favorite life, not being bound by outside rules, being yourself is the highest level of life.

04,Look through the truth about real lifeI still love life

Monica said to Rachel in the first season:

“Welcome to the real world, it sucks, but you will like it.

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Life is not easy, but the six big living treasures in “Friends” have made life a piece of life, telling us in the ridicule –

The real world is terrible, but we can still see through life and love life.

Life is going to be more frustrating and more courageous, and do our best for love–

Rachel, who graduated from college, interviewed 12 companies a day and was rejected:

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Rachel quit the job of the coffee shop waiter and announcedCloth himself no longer has to brew coffee. As a result, the next day in a new job, she was assigned the job of pouring coffee:

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Life is so stunned, but she never gives up her efforts: even if the next job is only a little bit of fashion that she loves, she will try to do it.

After she finally entered the coveted fashion industry, she had a lot of work, and even the holidays were all over, and she did her best for her love.

Life is bitter, but I have made it very sweet–

After being abandoned by his biological parents, his stepfather was imprisoned and his stepmother committed suicide. She and her sisters parted ways. When they were fourteen, they lived on the streets, and food and clothing were problems. This is the tragic youth of Pheobe.

Even so, Pheobe still loves life, makes fun of it, and grows into a warm person.

She is not willing to hurt any small animals, even the mice have to help raise them at home;

Her brother can’t give birth to a child, come over and ask her for help. Although everyone has discouraged her, she still promised to give her brother a surrogate to have children;

Everyone was too arguing on Thanksgiving Day, but she sighed at the side: It’s good to be with someone;

Ross fights with people who love children more, and they are red-faced, but she envies this child because he has a lot of love.

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She Always the one who can smell the warmth from the smell of gunpowder and hear the love from the quarrel.

She lives at the bottom of society and suffers, but she is stronger and optimistic than everyone else, and cherishes friendship and warmth more than everyone else. She is kind, generous, and never pays for and helps others.

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Life is bitter, but Pheobe has made it warm and sweet.

Life is full of fighting spirit, tough and strong–

Monica has long been under the pressure of her parents’ marriage, plus unemployment, parental eccentricity, and unsatisfactory people, all kinds of life are not easy to press on her shoulders.

She has a lot of reasons to be beaten by life, but she still chose tough and powerful, full of fighting spirit.

She is very passionate and glues everyone together like glue. It was she who first accepted Rachel and Rachel was able to become a member of her old friend. Without her, there would be no Friends.

She has perseverance, from a fat girl who can’t even get in the door, lose weight and become a thin person envied by everyone;

She is tough enough, even though she loves Richard, but she has a reluctance to give up her love for the future;

She was bold enough to know that she couldn’t give birth to a child. She only cried for one time and immediately took action and looked for children to adopt.

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There is only one kind of heroism in the world. It is the courage to accept reality and see through the truth of life, but still love life.

Life is hard, you can cry, you can hurt, but we never give up, never think.

05,In Friends, we have ourselves,there are dreams we can’t reach

If you say that you like “Friends”, you must be inseparable from this reason:

These six people in “Friends” have our own shadows and dreams that we can’t match.

Everyone in the play gives us inspiration for life.

Maybe you have Monica’s sincerity, but lack the courage to devote all your heart; maybe you have Rachel, your cherished like Ross, but you don’t bravely stand up for confession; maybe you have suffered like Pheobe, but haven’t found it yet. got youMike; maybe you and your friends used to be as intimate as Chandler and Joey, but in the end it was gone.

Those who are crazy, do stupid things, do nothing, and those who have been in love with each other are gradually gone.

Growing up is really a boring thing. We have become mature and stable under the doctrine of the truth, hiding the true emotions in the lessons of frustration, and living as masks one by one.

In the vast city, we were rushed by the people who commute to work. When we got home, we plunged into the virtual network world. We didn’t want to know any neighbors, we didn’t have the energy to meet our friends, and we couldn’t talk about a sincere heart. Loving.

In the chaos of life, We yearn for “Friends”, there is always a corner, giving us the power we can rely on, so that the tired heart can breathe.

In this corner –

We unloaded the defense and uncovered the camouflage,

We want to cry and cry, we want to laugh and laugh,

We want to say nothing without careful consideration,

What we want to do is to be accompanied by someone.

“Friends” is like a beacon in ordinary life. We saw ourselves in this show and saw the life we ​​yearn for.

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In the dark moments of countless life, it tells us that there is always light in front, there is always love in the side, and life is always full of hope.

I’ll be there for you, I will always be with you, just like you have been with me.

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