National Day Blinds and All Lives
Editor’s Note: This article comes from the WeChat public account “investment community” (ID: pedaily2012), the author voted.
“Every time you are married” is becoming a true portrayal of “old age” youth.
Zhu Ying is 29 years old and is responsible for the brand in an internet company in Beijing. The monthly salary is nearly 2W. On the National Day holiday, she returned to her hometown, a small town in the middle of the country. In just five days, she has accepted three waves of blind date – a blind date, a blind date introduced by a relative, and a blind date introduced by a classmate.
“There are two more games on the 6th, all of which are arranged in advance at home.” Zhu Ying is regarded as a “older young woman” in the family, cousin of the same age, and the children are on Kindergarten. In the past years, she has endured an endless overtime business trip, but she can’t help her relatives. “Oh, it’s very stressful. I just can’t wait to escape when I get home.”
Zhu Ying’s experience is not a case. In recent years, the National Day Golden Week is gradually becoming a blind date. “On the second day of the National Day holiday, I have experienced two waves of blind date.” A female netizen vomited on Weibo, and the netizen commented that “the same illness is pity”: “I, three times a day, convinced.”
National Day of the National Day:After 90, 5 games a week, I dare not go home
“Not in a blind date, just on the way to a blind date” constitutes a seven-day holiday for some older people.
“I have a sister, 30 years old. This age is really not old, but in the eyes of her family, she is a leftover woman, but when she goes home, she will be stunned by seven aunts. Collective siege. “I didn’t expect that in the blink of an eye, it will become the main force of the blind army.
Why do you want to date? This is a problem that young people and their parents can’t convince each other. “Tomorrow blind date, certainly no follow-up, but my aunt said for a long time, just see one side. Do not understand why you must marry and have children, not a good gene, and no royal family to inherit.” A Weibo users Chat with masturbation.
A place where there is a blind date must have a war. “I am fighting with my mother today. I have a fight, now the Cold War. Not desperate for marriage, but believe that better will come at the right time.” Inexplicably, I hope this female netizen will find her own “as soon as possible” better one”.
There is a more blind and more “sad” story. “On October 4, 2019, I ended the short but very difficult National Day holiday life. At the same time, the days of working in the fields during the day, and the days of eating and blinding at night have finally come to an end. No suspense, blind date failed. There is a saying That’s right: When you are datingThe more you look at each other, the more you eat. The three-day holiday life, although tired enough, but I was fat four or five pounds. “One netizen shared.
Of course, there are also netizens who have a good attitude as a social event. “As a new friend, have a meal, talk about your own experiences, and come together, and come and worship.”
There are people who have come to realize a truth from the many failed experiences of blind dating: The blind date is the condition. A trace of the problem is the main contradiction. The object you are looking for is nothing big. I feel that now is to play the game, hit the customs, I am the big Boss!
This is a kind of contemporary young people’s blind allies, which are mixed with countless embarrassment, pressure and helplessness. Yue Mei, born in 1990, is currently the marketing director of an Internet company in Shenzhen. Although her hometown is only two hours away from Shenzhen, she did not return home during the holidays. “Accurately, I dare not go home, there are too many reminders at home. Times.”
Therefore, all kinds of wonderful services were born – on behalf of each other. Some people were arranged by the parents to be blind, not willing to go and embarrassed to refuse, so they chose to find a blind date service on the Internet. On behalf of the pro-service can provide people and image customization, 600 yuan at a time, service time is about 2 hours.
According to media reports, some Taobao stores have long provided such intergenerational dating services. During the eleventh period, the number of shop consultants increased significantly. These customers were basically arranged for a holiday by 3 or 4 blind dates. Even more exaggerated, even from the 1st to the 5th are arranged a blind date every day.
Dating Vision Chain:Alibaba P8 with a salary of 1.7 million is sprayed
On the eve of the National Day, a “marriage notice” was on the Internet circle.
A Ali P8 programmer born in 1986, who claimed to have an annual salary of 1.7 million, publicized his marriage conditions on the Internet, causing great controversy. To sort out the content of the marriage, you can briefly summarize the following:
Own situation:
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born in 86 years, from north to north, height 170cm (After I admitted that there is water, said not less than 168cm), graduated from a higher education institution, master’s degree or above.
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Alibaba P8 programmer, with an annual salary of 1.7 million, Beijing Hukou, has a room and a car.
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Parents and families have a good life, no burden, no need to worry.
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Want to spend 2 million for a girl who meets the criteria to purchase a shared property for both parents.
Preference criteria:
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After 90, the southern girl is mainly from Jiangsu and Zhejiang, with a height of 162 or more and a bachelor’s degree of at least 211.
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The monthly income is more than 10,000, and the appearance of the body will be dressed up. The character is gentle and virtuous, and the knowledge is good.
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No family burden, it is best to be an only child.
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The woman has to invest more in the family and does not exclude the birth of two children.
is such a content of marriage, which triggered a heated discussion among netizens. Like the previous marriage placards, there are always people who dislike the man’s request too much—“Don’t think that a 1.7 million annual salary will allow a girl to be a babysitter for you, two people to live together, and three people to grind”, and there are always people. Refuting, it is not excessive to have such a requirement based on the conditions of others. “This is the top 5% of the society at present, and it is the representative of wealth, vision, knowledge, and experience.”
The opinion of a media person is quite interesting: but any marriage invitation will always give people an offense. “Don’t say that Ali P8 has an annual salary of 1.7 million, even if Ma Yun is in the battle, as long as he dares one or two three. The five conditions are listed, and the height of the house is a few babies, and the same will be ridiculed on the Internet.”
Annual salary of 170W, Ali employees, these conditions look good, but in the “close relatives contempt chain” is not the most popular, and even some people began to analyze, “ Why the annual salary of 1.7 million Ali P8, in the blind date market However, within the system of 200,000 annual salary?”
How much are you willing to spend to get rid of the order?
Single, gradually becoming a huge group. Not long ago, the “Statistical Bulletin on the Development of Civil Administration in 2018” issued by the Ministry of Civil Affairs showed that there are more than 200 million single adults in China, including more than 77 million single adults.
At the same time, the marriage rate in China for the whole year of 2018 was 7.3‰, a decrease of 0.4 thousand points from the previous year, setting a new low in 11 years.
Single crowd supportA group of marriage and love apps. According to the report, as of the first quarter of 2019, the active users of marriage and dating friends have exceeded 20 million, and the overall age of users is mainly distributed between 25 and 35 years old.
Although love is still not there, your wallet is being stared. According to the report, in 2018, China’s online dating and dating industry market revenue was 4.99 billion yuan. It is expected that by 2021, the online marriage market will maintain steady growth with total revenue exceeding 7 billion.
Check the display, there are a total of 8763 companies with the label of “marriage and love”. According to incomplete statistics, in the domestic marriage and love market, there are already several marriage and love dating websites or mobile application projects, including Lily, Zhenai, and Yuanyuan.
Is this a big market? A calculation formula popular in the industry can give a glimpse of the market size: 200 million (single population) × 10% (paying willingness) × 1,200 yuan (member annual fee) = 24 billion yuan. Just as someone ridicules, Fate is sometimes also used to make money out.
(Respondents in the article are pseudonyms)