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When I was nap at home and half-awake, I suddenly heard the knock of the door and gave me a cold sweat.
I thought the cat went to the neighbors and did something bad. After a few seconds, I realized that the computer was hanging qq.
This knocking through the door and time hits my heart: Ten years ago, if my grandmother was at my house, the voice of my friend in the QQ line also responded like this: “Who is knocking on the door?”, “Who coughs?” At that time, I will laugh at her, because no matter how many times I explain it, she will not understand what a friend is going online.
And ten years ago, I would never have thought that I would have such a day, like the grandmother who was ridiculed by me that year, I was amazed and discomforted with this voice.
I suddenly realized that maybe only children will be excited about the sudden knocking of the door. For contemporary adults who lack security, “knocking” is not a friendly setting.
Importantly, on the WeChat social product that adults are more familiar with, the “friends online reminder” function represented by “knocking on the door” does not even exist:
The popularity of mobile devices has long weakened the boundaries between social products “online” and “not online.” Your friends are always online, and they are not online at any time. Adults have long learned to be able to navigate online and offline. The grin in the frequency of replying to each other is well known.
They seem to have forgotten the classical words of “friends on the line reminder”, forgetting how they used to sneak on the Internet surfboard in a five-hour Internet cafe ten years ago, and enjoy themselves in “I am tired” On the line, lost in the “social social game.”
“Online” has meant that your avatar will temporarily emit seven colors of light, meaning that you are at a party, you must always be energetic and keep your face, because at any time someone will come and say hello to you:
I will always remember the year of my second year of high school. When I skipped classes and went online to prepare for the next flight, the girl I liked was knocking on the door. I just renewed the two yuan and talked for an hour. Debunked by my family…
In order to keep a low profile, many people will choose “invisible login”, but the height of the magic is one foot high. At that time, a kind of external qq can be seen to break through the stealth. Your mother will see in the rainbow qq that I should go to English tutoring. You are quietly on the line at 7:00 in the evening, and then you are questioning to you who are playing the Fantasy Westward Journey…
After the Internet users in the future, it is hard to imagine that on the Internet more than a decade ago, a small “online” behavior was such a serious matter.
And this serious reflection is the cute group image of the Internet world at that time:
When “new humans” embarked on the “new world,” the Internet products themselves are still in the stage of ignorant exploration. As such a formerThe first batch of subjects with no strong media, the “new humans” have undoubtedly experienced a rather intense cognitive revolution, even if they can’t talk about the thin ice.
In this group of “new humans”, it was undoubtedly a very special group of people after the age of 90 or adolescence.
“After 90” is becoming an increasingly faint keyword. After all, the first batch of ninety-nine is really going to be thirty years old.
And if we have to go back and look for it, what is special about it after “90”. I think the most interesting thing is undoubtedly: they are not exposed to the Internet after the 80 generations of their predecessors; they are not living in the Internet, such as air and water, since childhood.
——90 After the ignorant boyhood, under the intense pressure of the mainstream public opinion and the strong Internet, they were directly exposed to a violent explosion of social culture.
The fragments of this big bang are deeply embedded in their already weak souls, transforming the civilization genes they have been carrying for thousands of years.
90 After graduating from elementary school, the classmates who wrote the non-mainstream font “Do Not Forget Me” may still have only the family landline numbers of the students. They still pass the notes and write love letters like the children in the past. At the weekend, go to the door of the neighbor’s yard and knock on the door…
You can go to the commemorative album of junior high school, and everyone has already started to stay in the QQ number.
This means that in the most intense puberty of personality changes, they have learned a dating model that humans have never had before:
You are used to typing in a certain font and start to develop some online chat habits, such as whether to use a period at the end of the sentence, start using a very satisfied avatar and signature for a long time… – you start intentionally or unintentionally Cultivate your online personality, and online personality will be more and more intertwined with the offline personality, affecting each other:
For example, if you meet a new friend at school, you will soon exchange QQ number with the other party. Not ten each otherIn a familiar situation, deepen understanding through online interaction, and finally, online friendship back to the line, the friendship under the line is back to the line, so cycle…
The social ecology of the students was also uploaded to the online, the little punk began to be in the post, and the QQ space message board became the gold standard for testing friendship… All of this was naturally formed in just a few years. The traditional social model has been greatly subverted.
There is no doubt that the maturity of online socialization has effectively expanded the scope of the offline social circle after the 90s. The impact of this situation is of course quite complicated.
But on the positive side, teenagers are always full of sincerity. Even for a variety of reasons, he is not a cheerful person in reality. In cyberspace, they will reveal their true intentions intentionally or unintentionally.
—So, in general, when online social games are used to assist offline social behavior, thanks to the richness and unrestricted online image, it is easier for people to show themselves and understand each other. It’s easier to get online with like-minded friends.
On the other hand, as we increasingly distribute our souls online, “online strangers socialize” has become an important part of our friends.
The first time I socialized with strangers in the virtual space, it was actually on the phone: At that time, the TV station’s advertisement was playing, and dialing a number to enter the voice chat room, I called in, after complicated phone button operations. I entered a chat room.
It’s a pity, it’s just a summer dream of a teenager. When you start to carry more and more burdens from reality, you are getting farther and farther away from the perfect summer afternoon.
From a certain moment, they suddenly grew up after the 1990s. A notable sign is that they have closed their QQ space: then, firstly, Weibo is used as a substitute for QQ space, and the last one is plunged into The embrace of WeChat.
No one knows, is it that they don’t love people on QQ, or they don’t love QQ itself. In short, they became “abandoned Q family” that did not use, did not log in, or even installed QQ.
I haven’t logged in to QQ for many years. The reason why I was shocked by the knocking of the door this time is because someone told me a few days ago that my qq number was stolen. At first, I wanted to be stolen and stolen. I thought it would be a turn. The hacking should have opened my qq space that I can only see. It’s a very shameful thing, so I quickly rushed. A lot of effort changed the password back.
The moment when the login was successful, it was like a spring cleaning that suddenly found a package of undelivered couriers sent a year ago, like a watermelon-shaped red eraser falling out of your home’s cotton-padded pocket:
After graduating from high school, I didn’t talk to my classmates, I’m known to the 7798 people in the university community, and I’m not familiar with my colleagues in various periods… When WeChat appeared, because your relationship is not close So, they have no choice to send WeChat friends to each other.
And with qq being left out of your way, their faces and names are backlogged in the depths of your brain and can be forgotten at any time. Now, they are piled up in the upper right corner of your computer screen, making you unprepared .
Someone said that after the 1990s, we used WeChat to get rid of QQ. In fact, we took off our youthful clamshell and let our social circle be replaced. Although this statement sounds cruel, it seems that this is a cold fact.
Open a group that you carefully planned in the past, and most of them have been grayed out. Some people still online, some of them are mobile devices, and some of them display “TIM” online. After you check it, you know that it is a similar office software.
No one will pay attention to your online, even if you repeatedly hide the line and hide the line, try to image a friend of a computer online to send your lonely key, and even change the status to “Q never used before.” Me,” For a few hours, no one will care for you.
I am going to the old, Yangliuyiyi; now I come to think, rain and snow.
Today, social software has been divided into countless segments: squares have social microblogs, face-to-face social tinders, office communication are nailed, acquaintances have WeChat social…
Search for “Harry Potter” in the QQ search bar, just find someone with a avatar called Harry Potter, and then because the two people share a hobby for two hours and finally become friends, this is only A story that happened to a child.
Don’t say that the yellow diamonds decorate the space, find friends to light up the icons, these naive behaviors, now, you have set the circle of friends to be visible for three days:
You even started to threaten to get out of the Internet, because you find that social networks, in addition to increasing efficiency, do not give you any benefit in essence.
Even now on QQ, everyIt is necessary to add dozens of strangers to the sky. The purpose is to realize this after one day of “extension” and “warm talk”. – The Internet can bring them such “faces” and such excitement, but the friends you really need are contrary to this “flow worship”:
As long as you are still born in this body, as long as you are subject to human intelligence and feelings, you must abide by the ancient law of “having friends from afar,” and in this sentence, “far.” Perhaps it is a concept that the Internet can never understand.