This article is from the WeChat public account: Everyone-Tencent News (ipress) , the original title:” crazy children under worship, men are also victims, “the authors: Hou Hongbin, from the title figure: Oriental IC
When focusing on some social issues, there is often a feeling of powerlessness: human sorrow and happiness are not connected.
People who live in big cities have a hard time understanding the extent to which patriarchy and sexism are tolerated in some places. In turn, people who have lived in these places for a long time are outside their own lives. It is also difficult to understand what is the law, what is the rule, what is the dignity of the person; I do not know what is the normal way out.
Not long ago, I talked to everyone in Tencent’s “Younger Generation, Increasingly Dominate Men and Women”, and talked about the situation of rural women has not improved because women are declining and men are under “marriage squeeze” It is even more difficult. Today, I want to talk about the men who realize that it is difficult to get married in the same place. What methods are they using to find marriage and childbearing possibilities? Can this method solve the problem?
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The surging news recently published a special feature “Man Going to Pakistan to Get Married”, which analyzes in detail what Chinese men want to go to after seeking a foreign marriage. Grim question.
“Hundreds of men have traveled to Pakistan to get back a bride. Some of them are college students with good family backgrounds, divorced doctors working in first-tier cities, and some Shenzhen barbecue restaurants with annual income of 300,000.> Some brides are married for the fourth time, and they are all dating through this kind of intermediary.
Some finally got married, brought foreign girls to China, and even had children. However, the visa expired immediately, and the embassy stated that women whose visas had expired were sent directly back to the country and no longer renewed. There are hidden clauses in some intermediary contracts. As long as the man wants to divorce, he needs to give the bride 2 million rubles. So some girls tried to anger them and forced them to ask for a divorce.
What’s more frightening is that they may be in jail. Some brides were reluctant to leave at the airport, shouting that her husband was a “trafficking man.” The man was arrested in jail for two days, repatriated, and the girl remained in Pakistan. Another time, the agent took the “bride” to the airport, and the girl shouted, “My father sold me to him. He is a trafficker! There are 7 other girls who have been trafficked there!” The prison was later released through operation.
Every case proves that sometimes the drama of reality is not inferior to that of movies.
At present, the Chinese government has begun working with some neighboring countries to crack down on illegal matchmaking and illegal population trading. This is the improvement and progress of the legal system. However, it should be noted that the media did not interview the other party, so the news was presented by the male voices. After hearing these stories, readers will be sympathetic to these boys.
They just wanted to marry a daughter-in-law. Why did they pay so much?
Another thing worth noting is that those who really make money on this chain, who really pit these men, are intermediaries, Chinese, themselves, and even fellows. It is worth pondering: Why do these seemingly suspicious transnational matchmakings succeed?
We do n’t know whether those Pakistani girls who are dating Chinese boys know what this blind date means, whether they are willing to come to distant China, accept a world with completely different life customs, or just want to make use of “intercourse “On the pretext of making a fortune. However, as far as we know, the girl ’s marriage is used as a bargaining chip to create extra income or change the fate for the whole family. This is not an example in a certain area, but a kind that is common at the bottom phenomenon. Every one of the younger brothers, the younger brothers, and the younger brothers is a gift for their younger brother to marry his wife, or to rely on college.
While we condemn unscrupulous intermediaries for using information to defraud money, we should also have a minimum understanding of the situation of people in those stories.
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