e-val = “1,1”> It has nothing to do with how they want to be in the future. Children are not objects. Family, like career, is the future of women’s dreams, but it is just a difficult part of life.
@ChenQQ
Women are very ambitious, which is not a good meaning in the general social environment. I saw this fact too early, so I always prioritize my feelings and pursuits. You do n’t agree with me and it does n’t prevent you from being comfortable.
@Ragnarok
This is not discriminatory. The job is there and someone needs to do it. When you say that you have a child, you ca n’t wait for you to complete your maternity leave after you give birth to your child.
The lack of family support has increased the burden on women
@ 睿 凝
Men and women in the family must do a good job in parenting. It is best to have the elderly help at home. Women, like men, are excellent in the workplace and require the support of at least two generations. The biggest difference is that women want to give birth and they will sacrifice. Lost nearly a year of work time, but really capable women are the most hard-working group of people. Working for life, working too hard is a social abnormality!
@ 某 胖儿
I believe that there are not many families that can negotiate with their parents and their husbands on how to divide the work and implement it. Bless you have such a family, you can work together. I think there is nothing wrong with a full-time housewife. Can the key society recognize this profession and make adjustments on taxation and other policies? It is said that when the children go to school, the teacher prefers the mother full time.
@ 小孙 同学
These are all I have experienced. I thought the old man and husband could help to bring the child, but the fact is that everyone thinks the child is yours. It is natural for a child to find a mother. After experiencing postpartum depression and recognizing that my husband is a selfish child who has not been weaned, I decided to divorce. Now I bring my child about the same as before, but at least no one will make you angry all day. Financially Same as before.
The fathers of China ’s post-80s generations are so happy that your children have grown up with their mothers. Women not only have to do laundry to have children but also bear at least half of the financial pressure. You are not looking for a daughter-in-law.
@ 鸵鸟
In fact, the husband and father are not necessarily missing in these stories. They are more from the kind of indifference in the heart of independent women. I am currently pregnant for 7 months. Since the beginning of pregnancy, I have considered the road How to go, although my husband and family are telling me not to be too anxious and not too tired, and have given great support, but for me, work is more likely to be an identification with myself and has nothing to do with others?
@ 小杰
You ca n’t take both of your efforts as a matter of course. Should men work hard for entertainment and women?free. Everything has a price, you control the cost yourself, and let the price mechanism decide everything. Neoliberalism thinks this is not the best solution, but it is the most effective. So you have to earn, manage and plan all by yourself.
I have to say that in addition to the successful promotion of the moral logic of neoliberalism in Britain and the United States, it has suffered from various degrees of resistance and rebound in many other countries. Cultural countries, this set of moral systems does not fit the national conditions.
@ 黄 冰 （比 红）
Because of the inadequate parenting support, every small family has to bear too much pressure. House prices squeeze living space; trafficking issues force parents to accompany them 24 hours a day, squeezing time away; school rush to increase the yard to turn the family into a second classroom, squeezing parents’ last trace of energy. I ask which parent is not anxious in childcare, and when raising children has become an elite luxury consumption, which is a comprehensive test of intelligence, energy, physical strength, and financial resources. Under the test of high difficulty, the number of children is fewer, and the elite education is more prosperous without children, and the childcare is more difficult.
@Helen Yan
What is not mentioned is the current education system. The education system within the current system forces many families to sacrifice a family member to concentrate on their children’s learning. Unless you are fully stocked with your child. What small blackboard, WeChat parent group, foreign language teachers turn to you every day, under such pressure, it seems that you are not full-time just sorry for your child, sorry for the school. The difference in physical strength between men and women and the difference in retirement age directly lead to a longer career for men than women. If a family must have someone to sacrifice for their children, considering the family benefits, there is no doubt that it is a mother. It can only be said that in China, it is really difficult for women who want to have children, and it is even more difficult to take care of being a working woman. Strong woman, that requires more powerful women …
@ 史 圣 园
There is no problem in choosing to be a mother. A mother is not only a role, but also a job, a great job, but the key is whether this “job” can be recognized and respected and supported by the family and society. Choking family relationships like “Home on the Ramp”, choosing to be a mother is tantamount to starting a business in the Red Sea industry in the winter of capital, with a difficulty factor of Max. But if there are enough supportive family members, then at least as a woman, I would still be willing to grow up with my small life, embrace all the uncertainties along the way.
Not to mention the Internet, even for institutions, it is difficult to bring a baby while working. I was basically my mother, and my grandparents didn’t help. I drank Lazar to accompany me to the newspaper interest class. My dad is more guided by Gao Wujian, providing financial support, and the actual operation on the details is completely wrong, even the posture of holding the baby is not right. Children before 3 years oldIt ’s a random event box. I ’m sick and cry at any time. My mother needs to stand by for 24 hours. I supervised my studies after school, took me to the library to borrow books on weekends, and took me to travel to various places during the holidays. From the belly of a belly to a qualified social person, the workload is no less than that of a startup company starting from scratch and always going public.
I hope that the value of my mother ’s job will be more recognized by the society, and my father will be involved in the childcare process as much as possible, so that the reproduction of our social labor force can continue smoothly and the quality of the population can continue to improve. It will be better tomorrow.
The core of tragedy is patriarchal culture
@ 草率 怪
If a virtue is only required for women, but not for men as well, its essence must be a conspiracy. If a virtue requires only the lower, but not the higher, it must be an exploitation.
@ELise
As an old girl who is not married and has little ambition but has been slowly progressing (I am a language professional who agrees with the traditional definitions of “old girl” and “old lady”, and firmly rejects the “leftover girl” which is full of prejudice. The contemporary pseudo-propositions of discrimination and discrimination. Marriage is an independent choice, not left behind, thank you ~).
Please note that the text in parentheses above is not digressive nonsense, but to elicit the point of view: From the modern era to the present, it seems that we have been proclaiming ourselves as “sex equality”, but we have been timid from a simple title. The understanding of unmarried women is more malicious and prejudiced than before.
It’s not hard to understand about Bao Ma’s career growth and entrepreneurial dilemma.
Since the words “entrepreneurship”, “promotion”, and “partnership” are all born from the traditional patriarchal soil, it is naturally dominated by the perspective of male culture. This is the “accomplished fact” of modern patriarchal society.
If everyone absolutely believes that women do not need to participate in high-level leadership and decision-making at all, they only need to keep a stable salary for the family, then the current set of modern social civilization is built. There is no meaning at all, we should collectively retreat to the traditional farming era.
On the contrary, we must all think and practice together about the way in which the genders get along in the construction of the world, promote development, the way of dialogue, and the role of the role.
It may be a bit far away, but I personally think that these are the key points of this proposition. Many people don’t even have basic knowledge. How can they talk about specific issues such as policy support and gender complementarity? If the basic identity of gender cooperation in the workplace cannot be established, then women will always receive “giving, gifts and family obligations”. The difference from the era of “man-farming and weaving” is just a change of physical space and cannot be justified Achieve cooperation and creativity. <