This article is from the WeChat public account: Everyone-Tencent News (ID: ipress) , author: Wang xiaoni, head of FIG. source: FIG insect
December 29, 2019 Peking UniversityThe physical expectation is rather confused. In school, you can go to class step by step, after class, go to eat, finish eating, go to self-study, look at books in the bedroom and go online. After graduating, stepping out of campus, facing a large society, all kinds of strangers, different values, different identities, status, right to speak … messed up, confused. Seeing that everyone is looking for a job. Then look for work. Seeing that everyone is studying for civil servants, then testing for civil servants, seeing that everyone is studying for graduate school, then studying for graduate school again … all kinds of toss.
No goal, no direction, I feel that everything in front of me is not what I want, but I am not particularly clear about what I want.
When I graduate, I don’t know what I can do, so I just want to find a job that I can do and I don’t hate.
I have an attitude of escaping society and do not want to work. The only expectation is to be a civil servant, get married at the age of 25 and have children, and be an ordinary town girl.
I just graduated, no experience, no background, no confidence. After graduating for many years, the first job was found through an intermediary and went to a private school in Dongguan.
When I graduate, I look forward to taking a decent job in a big city. I hope I can earn 6k a month and I can talk about sweet love.
I look forward to a less stressful job that meets my interests. With a certain level of qualifications and funds, I can be a traditional cultural studio and share my thoughts and fun things with like-minded people. Considerable income. I usually live a healthy and regular old life. I have my own yard to bask in the sun, funny birds, play the piano, drink tea, socialize with friends, and travel on holidays.
Go to the big city. Because the cities where undergraduate and master’s degrees are not big cities, I want to live in big cities. Being a white-collar worker is quite satisfactory.
Haha, my idea when I graduated was super simple. I hope to be a professional advertising person in a certain city in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, and I can deal with fun and interesting things every day. The income is 3,000. Able to afford rent and daily life alone. Then, I look forward to meeting some good friends in this city, just like in college.
2. Actual income at graduation
Haikou Magazine editor’s monthly salary 300Moaning while living pain. I often tell myself, don’t overdo it, but … it doesn’t seem to make any difference.
I have graduated for six years, I have not been admitted to the civil service, I have no boyfriend, and even have no idea of getting married. I work in a Fortune 500 central enterprise and live a 007 life remarks “label =” Remarks “> (from 0 to 0, no rest seven days a week, commonly known as 24 hours, is a more flexible working system than 996) . It’s nothing like the life I imagined when I just graduated, but it’s not scary at all.
The average income is over 10,000. I bought a house and can go out and play every year. In fact, it is still ordinary and there are no amazing achievements.
I also remind you at home, but often I do n’t go home overtime, I have less time to meet, the frequency of marriage is relatively low, the company also has dormitories, I do n’t go home often, as long as I do n’t stay with my parents, there will be fewer conflicts. .
In 2019, I’m in Xi’an. I get 3,000 a month, rent 1800, and mortgage 2,000. The family feels that they are not state-owned enterprises in the civil service and public institutions, so they do not have a job.
I have a high salary, but my family feels that I am sick. Don’t change jobs. It’s good to retire in a state-owned enterprise and a state-owned enterprise.
… I won’t get married or have a baby anyway, I can’t resist it, I just passed by.
Because I had been in the hospital for fifteen days before, my bullying increased my workload several times and tried my best to force me to resign. I want to apply for a medical ultrasound report of the heart color Doppler ultrasound, ct, intentionally not to report to me, nor to apply for medical insurance for chronic diseases of the staff … After that, I also became a buddha, and I confessed my fate, and came to this state-owned enterprise to eat and wait for death.
In Shanghai, I changed jobs at the end of September. Now I’m working in a public welfare organization with a monthly cost of 5,000. I found a part-time job on the weekend and can earn 1,000 a month.
At present, I share a room with her roommate and one of her friends. Three people share the same room. The monthly rent is 1200. The bicycle can be shared to and from work. The company’s free cafeteria is available at noon. If there are no major expenses in the month, that’s fine.
Ride to work for about twenty minutes. It is very convenient to work in the urban area. The district library is only ten minutes away. Some lectures and exhibitions are available every weekend. These are completely different from those in the countryside. When in the countryside, the natural scenery is not bad, but these spiritual lives are basically absent and there are no places to watch movies. It takes more than forty minutes to go to the city by bus and high-speed. Spend most of the weekend at homeTao is really “It’s not up to us what we can do.”
4. Lonely and silent
Over the years, I have maintained contact with them, but more often, everyone meets and laughs around the dining table. They hardly tell me their own difficulties or speak with reservation. When I was reading, I really liked the group of people who claimed to be “story”. Finally, I really had a story, and I learned to put it in my stomach, and I almost never voluntarily said it.
Finally, they are young people. It seems that they have not changed much, and they are still clean and bright. If it weren’t for this issue, they might silently digest all that has been and will be experienced. Not only did they not mention expectations, they were almost silent. Although I knew they were unwilling and wanted to keep the “torch in their hearts”, they were tired enough to meet the basic needs of a stable diet and warm life.