This article comes from WeChat public account: Grid Thirteen (ID: GSSW13) , author: thirteen brother, from the title figure: Oriental IC
I am 13 brother-in-law. Mingren do n’t speak secretly, it ’s not that I can count, but I can say something bad here: Although we encountered some bumps in the beginning of 2020, we can predict some difficulties, but do n’t be sad, we can also expect some Things are waiting for us.
For example: the divorce rate may drop sharply in 2020. Not only did the divorce rate decline, but the marriage rate is also expected to rise.
I will analyze the reasons for you:
First, the peak of the annual divorce rate is mostly after the Spring Festival. For example, according to statistics, from 2013 to 2018, within one month after the Spring Festival, the divorce rate was 2.6 times higher than usual.
The reason is naturally related to the Spring Festival. Let ’s have a new year ’s celebration for the family who ’s going back, and a short argument for each parent ’s parents, and then look at how good the husband and wife of other people ’s families are, laying a solid foundation for rupture and returning to divorce.
However, many couples do not go out this year, and their parents-in-law do not go. Many conflicts are avoided.
Second, in the past, most people were struggling. After the holidays, they found that their wallets were empty and their pressure doubled, which led to an increase in temperament and depression. There are many peopleDuring this period of mental breakdown years later, he did not think about it and impulsively divorced.
This year, the epidemic has reduced consumption during the Spring Festival. For example, me, the Spring Festival expenditure is zero. (except red envelopes) , many people also I have almost no deficits.
In addition, the Spring Festival holiday has been extended, and the date of rework has been delayed. People have more time to think about the planning for a period of time from the gap between the holiday and work.
They calmed down, calmed down, and rationalized. All kinds of emotional out-of-control and mental breakdown that had erupted after the Spring Festival are gone, and a large number of potential impulsive divorces have disappeared.
Third, there are many single people who did not want to get married. Among them, a large number of people responded to the call in this outbreak and did not go home. They lived alone for a year.
The cats are okay, the ones without cats are too lonely.
At least half of this wave of people are starting to think of becoming a family. Marriage, at least in such difficult times will not be helpless and lonely.
In addition, many single friends stayed at home for a while. After the epidemic ended, they were finally released to the society. They cherished the moment when someone was around them, took the initiative to get close to them, and found it with their vengeance. Once you have reached the target, you will enter the palace of marriage, and it is expected that you will have a precious child early. If the time is right, it will be a “niuwa”.
By the way, many people are going to get married this year in order to give birth to “Niuwa”.
Fourth, the epidemic can save a large number of shaky old wives and wives.
Those middle-aged couples who feel passionate and disinterested, may I ask you, the last time you two were so inseparable in the same room and did not dislike each other, should it be during the honeymoon?
For our middle-aged people, there is no sudden love, but we did not expect a sudden epidemic. The curve of saving the country has helped us strengthen our feelings.
First of all, a period of more than ten days of quarantine will leave us with nothing to do at home. The advantage is that you can dig out the flash points that you have never found. I opened my eyes every morning recently, the first question: what should I fix today?
After many days of hard work, our family has nothing to repair. I had to work with my son to pretend to accidentally damage the sweeping robot and then fix it.
I feel like a super Mary. And the mother of the child, after experiencing these days of observation, felt that I was a treasure boy and gave me joy and kindness.
She started to teach me to make cakes. Yesterday, I pulled out a pack of expired low-gluten flour from the cabinet and said to me: make a cake, don’t eat it after cooking, just practice your hands.
She also dragged me to review classic old movies. Make a list for me to choose. The closed island, the sixth sense, the silent lamb, a pear tree blossoming begonia …
The most boring thing is that she actually taught me to braid with my son. I said, “We don’t need to learn this.” She said, “If you have a granddaughter in the future, don’t you all have to braid?” I was speechless.
But it doesn’t work very well.
Made by the mother-in-law on the left, edited by the son on the right
However, it’s really a torture to not be able to go out.
Home is the only place of activity, which has changed my worldview recently.
Every morning I start thinking about how to innovate today. What glamorous display for breakfast comes from Hi? How does lunch make more innovative and poetic food? Would you like neng spanish noodles for dinner? Is there anything left to fix in the kitchen? Would you like to clean up the dead corner under the sofa again? Is it appropriate to take out all the white shirts and wash them by hand? Find something fun to play with your son? Would you like to memorize the words with him and count at 24? …
I feel great, I am just a top ten middle-aged man who combines housework and childcare experts.
This outbreak will allow many men to experience the life of a full-time mother. It also made many husbands understand that “easy to have postpartum depression when confinement is born” in women’s mouth is not unfounded.
Yes, let alone confinement. It’s only been a week. I’m already depressed. Now my only freedom every day is to take out garbage.
I really didn’t expect that my iron man, who was unforgettable in my forties or forties, had the eagle-like temperament to be pinched by trash …
You do n’t know. Since I ca n’t go out, I have even more detailed garbage sorting at home every day. I have flattened the milk box, carefully cut it with a utility knife, cut it into parallelograms, from big to small List out, but also pick out the good looks and leave them for handmade. When I seriously finished the rubbish sorting carefully, when I looked at the watch, only 5 minutes passed, I was very depressed.
Now waiting for the opening time of the trash can, it’s just as exciting as the bell ringing after school.
Every time I go out to take out garbage, there is a lot of preparation. The child’s mother repeatedly told before leavingI have all kinds of precautions and the risks that need to be avoided on the road. She is like a little lady who sent officials to Beijing to take the test and reluctantly. The difference is that there is no entanglement and dry food. , Go back three times in one step, and she watched me away with affection …
The journey from my home to the trash can takes about ten seconds, and the whole round trip takes about 30 seconds, once in the morning and evening. The total length of time I leave the house is only 1 minute. Go home and farm.
Actually, the contribution that ordinary people can make in this epidemic is very small. The biggest contribution is to stay at home less and go out. It is better to take this opportunity to feel the home.
Look at the people around you. The person who is by your side at this time, so that you don’t feel lonely and hard, should be your dear and beloved. A small family is stable, and everyone will be fine. Everyone in 2020, whether it is love or affection, has passed the test and developed for the better, then everyone will get better.
I also hope that everyone will reduce anxiety and panic, be more at ease, do their part, and wait for spring to come.
This article is from the WeChat public account: Grid Thirteen (ID: GSSW13) author: thirteen brother