This article is from WeChat public account: Epoep Storys Museum ID: 2017 , author: Chen mochi, FIG head source: IC photo
The “N-room incident in South Korea” came to the attention of mainland netizens after the dramatic response from Korean folk.
More than 3 million petitions were thoroughly investigated and severely punished, making it the largest petition in Korean history. President Wen Zaiyin has ordered a full investigation and said he would give the victims adequate support.
This evil “House N” has been around for four years.
“House N” is a secret chat group built on communication software. Every day, the group uploads videos of various women being sexually abused, raped, and even forced to eat excrement.
The vast majority of victims are minors, the youngest being only 11 years old.
Sodom is no different.
Behind this is an extremely sinful industrial chain.
The earliest homeowner “Godgod” (God) Every day, “hunting” on social networks, identifying young girls as targets.
He controlled these young girls by hacking accounts, posing as police, and stealing personal information. Then fool girls with nudity videos or photos for a variety of reasons.
Once he succeeds, he threatens them with these videos or photos. These young girls are frightened and can only take orders from him and become victims of continuous sexual abuse.
There is more than one “room N”, but several ones are encoded by numbers, and they are even classified into various topics.
The “room N” even has a threshold. Not only does it need to pay, but also the “user” must upload enough obscene, pornographic, and candid videos to be allowed to enter.
That’s it. Men still love it.
According to statistics, A total of about 260,000 men have entered this sinful room. This does not include the number of shared accounts, and may actually be more.
One of the demands of the Korean public is to disclose the information of these 260,000 people because “they are also murderers.”
I don’t think it’s too much to watch these women as victims of abuse and those who treat women’s suffering as pornography.
It is normal for people to have normal physiological needs. Today, with erotic information everywhere, there are obviously various legal ways to satisfy their sexual preferences.
But they chose to watch the women being abused, and even encouraged these women to continue to be abused.
If it weren’t for their evil needs, how would the industry grow and develop step by step?
However, among these 260,000 people, many men have no guilt and even feel “aggrieved and can’t sleep”:
Even if they are not part of these 260,000 people, ordinary men are irritated by such news:
Even in China, there are also male intellectuals who say that some women are uncomfortable because they attack men because they are being scolded with him:
I have to say that the attitudes of these three categories of men almost cover most of the men in life:
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I’m not directly involved in the violence. I just watch / watch / slut humiliation / Internet violence. I’m not the rapist myself. What matters to me?
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I did n’t do any evil, right? I haven’t watched these sneak shot videos. I usually treat my girlfriend well. I still do housework … How can I keep seeing these annoying news? Your feminism is really annoying.
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I have done a good job. I have always supported equality, protection of women’s rights, and condemnation of existing injustices. You always say on the Internet that “men don’t have a good thing.” I am also very wronged.
As a woman, when I see these speeches, I just find it difficult to empathize.
In life, almost every woman has experienced sexual harassment to varying degrees, perhaps not in the form of insult in Room N, but in a variety of ways that seem “insignificant.”
Live at the hotel first to check for toilets and mirrors for sneak shots, to have dinner with male friends, to intentionally turn a deaf ear to some yellow jokes, to discuss cooperation with customers, and on occasions where there are many bidders, it is best to find men to accompany you in the night. Never drink to be drunk … These experiences come from word of mouth among female groups. We are always in the fear of being harassed and violated, and these experiences have never been enough to give us a sense of security.
Who knows when one of his negligence will make his nude photos fly all over the Internet.
On the one hand, women are required to be chastity, innocence, and self-protection. On the other hand, women are required to be weak, sensible, and not to be too sensitive or to resist too fiercely. These shackles leave us almost no safe zone at all.
Many men-no matter what you did, did not do, or tried to understand and care for women, or completely indifferent attitude, these men may have a hard time realizing this fear and grievance.
Things in Korea are not far away. Just in our country, similar things are better than ever.
Almost all pornographic websites have sneak shots. Some works may be “sneak shots” of performances, but others are completely sneak shots without permission.
It is even more sinful. There are even mysteries and deceptions. Many of the victims are minors.
Some young ladies and sisters abroad are very angry about this behavior. They launched the #ChinaWakeUp campaign on the Internet to report these sneak shots in China, and even provided tutorials to teach people how to report.
They cross countries, languages,Cultural barriers to do this, because they are women, this is the pain of the skin that women share.
How many of those men who consider themselves “already doing well” will take the initiative?
Not long ago, the “Permanent Residence Regulations” caused a lot of trouble on the Internet. Some Chinese netizens seem to think that when foreigners settle down, they are “robbing” Chinese girls, so they have issued “Chinese girls and Chinese boys. “Protection”.
More netizens ridiculed this kind of middle and young, but still worried about the logic behind: This is just treating women as sexual resources, which is no different from the 260,000 people.
I do n’t want to talk maliciously about these speeches. I just want to discuss. What should boys do if they really want to protect girls?
Boy out candid videos. Do n’t watch, do n’t spread, do n’t ask for seeds in the comment area;
Do n’t sneak shots of women or even your partner for any reason, such as showing off / eyeballing / traffic;
Any sexual acts at any time, follow the three principles of adulthood, voluntary, and privacy;
Don’t stigmatize, victimize or stigmatize any victim of sexual violence;
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And knowing that the above is just the bottom line. Being done does n’t mean doing well. Being done does n’t mean it ’s a blessing for women, but as a conscience, you should have done it.
Perhaps you have done all this before, so what else can you do?
My favorite talk show actor Daniel Sloss once told an experience during a show: One of his male friends violated his close female friends, and he has always felt very self-blame for this.
He blame him on this manWhen sex friends repeatedly expressed misconduct towards women, he did not stand up, and he thought he could have prevented it from happening.
So if you really want to protect women or do something for them, then:
Prevent inappropriate yellow jokes in public, instead of laughing together;
Condemn a male friend when he wants to share with you a candid porn video, instead of saying “a good man is safe for life”;
When you see a man at the bar take the opportunity to stop and stop, instead of thinking, “This woman must be very saucy” and then leave;
When you hear sluts who are humiliated, disrespectful to women, and promote gender inequality, come forward to argue with them instead of ignoring or agreeing.
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There are many things you can do. There is no need to feel aggrieved and upset about the endless debates and irrational emotions on the Internet. After all, the Internet and real life are separated. In real life, a man who physically defends women’s rights and interests will definitely be fully respected and recognized by women.
Although I don’t think women need men to “protect”, if you really want to “protect”, you have a lot to do.
This article is from WeChat public account: Epoch story Kodate (ID: epochstory2017) , author: Chen mochi