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The “Houlang” released by the B station was screened during the Youth Festival, causing a lot of discussion and controversy. Everyone was aggrieved, and felt that they were the one rubbed on the beach, looking at others, full of envy. All loneliness, poverty, confusion and helplessness are like gifts specially prepared for you.

I personally have no special views on the content of the video. After all, I have been beaten by life for so many years, and a group of stable minds. I really want to comment. I think “Houlang” is very successful from the perspective of communication. Brand publicity, public relations and government relations serve three purposes. Enterprises do things depending on the results. This result is worth affirming.

But today I ’m not discussing how to do explosive content, it ’s because the back and forth wave has triggered me some thinking about the survival status of individuals. Some people may not understand why I have been writing such topics recently, because this number is concerned with business and products, and the individual is the smallest unit of business and products.

Everyone has seen the wave, and our life curve is as ups and downs as this thing. One day when people lie flat and their electrocardiograms lie flat, they ca n’t make waves. Furthermore, the overall ups and downs of each of us is the result of the superposition of many events. It is not difficult for those who have gone to high school to understand. I just found a picture, everyone feel it:

These substates are stacked together to form our state of life. In actual life, everyone’s working and living conditions are much more complicated than this. If we want a good life state, we have to try our best to solve the problems of these sub-states, and finally solve the overall problem naturally.

First of all, we need to start with some curves that have medium- and long-term effects.

There are not many important sub-states that affect everyone ’s life. Among them, family origin and parents are not optional. It is not ruled out that some friends are dragged down by native families in this regard.

Because marriage is very important, you should be very careful when setting up your own family.

Love can let go of the conversation, do n’t just get married. Marriage is like a business, finding a partner is like starting a company and looking for a partner. Whether the three views are consistent, whether the origins of the two sides and family background match, all affect the futureAn important factor in the state of marriage management.

Maybe young friends find it a big deal to divorce, but the sunk costs and potential losses involved here are too great to pull down your life curve a lot. Especially in the case of having a wave after marriage, things will become more troublesome.

The medium- and long-term influence outside of marriage is the choice of study and industry.

The impact of school and academic qualifications on people declines with time after graduation. If it is a prestigious school and a high degree, the decay period will be longer, but ten years after graduation, it is basically cleared. If you have an international first-class school and a doctorate, you can probably manage it for fifteen years.

The role of good schools and high academic qualifications is that you will have more choices in industries and companies a few years before graduation, because this can prove your previous efforts and talents to some extent.

And what kind of industry and enterprise to choose, there is a paradox that top talents often choose top companies and industries to maximize the effectiveness of previous school qualifications. But quite a few of these companies and industries will go downhill in your future career and start to decline. When you encounter this kind of situation, when the middle age, the aura of the school education fades, and it is very difficult to change jobs. Many of my old colleagues did not get out of the way in the mobile phone industry.

The truth is easy to understand, but if you have entered the wrong line and fell into the pit, how can you save yourself?

Then the importance of finding the second curve is reflected.

One of the Shunfeng brothers near my house is responsible for collecting items. He has many friends on WeChat, so he sold the jade in the circle of friends. The consignor is also a customer of the nearby Wenwan Market. After getting acquainted, he takes the goods from there and sells them.

Another SF brother who is responsible for dispatching has no customer-friendly conditions, but he studied computer when he was in school, and will take over the code on the Internet in his spare time.

Many people rely on wages to eat, but after work, they never try to earn even a dollar by themselves, and there is only one income curve, so you are so relieved.

Here is a tip. The ceiling of many things is not high, it is difficult to do multiplication. For example, your salary at work will not easily be from 100,000 to 10 million annual salary, or if you are in a business, it is difficult to break through after a few thousand. In this case, you should add decisively and copy the previous successful experience. It is not necessarily more difficult to make all three things into 5 points than to make one thing into 10 points.

At the same time, finding the meaning of the second, third, and Nth curves is also a hedge of risk. Many small businesses have short life cycles. You need to build up other curves before the curve goes down, so that your overall income curve does not decline.

Therefore, if the income curve of the main business declines due to entering the wrong line, it is more necessary to engage in a side business to hedge, not to mention that the side business has become larger and has become an example of the main business. It is very common.

But there is also a necessary condition here, justYou have to exercise.

There is a common misconception that exercising is for longevity.

Actually, the life span of a person is as large as a person ’s life, and it ’s easy to get sick, which is basically determined by genes. The fluctuations in the health state brought about by a person ’s physical state are all around a given curve of genes. As long as you have a healthy lifestyle, even if you don’t exercise a lot, you won’t lose too much of your life. Even, whether a person likes sports is determined by genes.

Exercising is mainly to keep you in a good state of mind so that you can toss more and higher curves.

In the past six months, I have encountered some psychological problems. I have researched some materials myself and communicated with professional friends. The final conclusion is that all psychological problems are ultimately physical problems, and all physiological problems are ultimately genes. problem.

Under the premise of not being able to rewrite the genes, you need a good body if you want to have a good mental state and do things with vitality. Otherwise, you will be depressed if you do n’t move, and you ’re all foolish and annoying to see everything.

Of course, religious belief is also a means to improve mental and mental state, but from the perspective of input and output, the reward of exercising is more direct and does not conflict with religious belief.

The curve of body state, as people grow older, even if it fluctuates, it will steadily decline. The significance of exercise is to make it as high as possible, and slow down.

Finally, choose a suitable coordinate system

In recent years, the cost of living and survival pressure in domestic first-tier cities have been relatively high. Some friends chose to leave, I understand very well. Some friends have chosen to go abroad for development and have a great time.

Changing the city and even the country of work and life is essentially an action of changing the coordinate system. The starting point and unit of different coordinate systems are different. The one that suits you is the best. You are responsible for your own life.

In short, the perspective of the grand narrative of front and back waves has little meaning for individual survival. How everyone waves, and how to wave after wave, is what we should really care about.

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Judgment: Senior product manager, author of Tiger Sniff 2017 and 2019. WeChat public account: The old driver of the judge (ID: panguansays), author of the book “Product Awakening”