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At present, my biggest disadvantage in the workplace is that I cannot devote all my energy to one thing. This is indeed something I cannot do. But my advantage is that I may be better known than others, and people have been talking about the wolf culture, but in many cases, regardless of the consequences, it is called killing and burying, and the integrity of my work is much higher than others.

This is also the child’s influence on me. First of all, after being a mother, she is very soft, and there will be a soft place in her heart. In addition, when you have a child, you will realize that It is useless to work hard on many things. It is not possible to solve problems by working hard, so you begin to accept life slowly.


To tell the truth, after having a child, I have a very big change, it is easy to be content. I think children give me a lot of strength, they are a positive energy regulation.

I have always believed that human beings are extremely small individuals. When viewed in the big universe, I might not care too much about the impact of one or two small things in life on me. Judging from the long river of my universe, my child is healthy, safe and happy, and I am very happy. I think this state is OK.

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Chen Chen, 31 years old

Internet company public relations manager

Married and unborn

“Growth and value enhancement are the biggest challenges at present, but this is not determined by age”

I was lucky to rush to Yantai to watch the sea on the weekend before the Beijing emergency response level was raised. I have been thinking recently, why am I alive and what is the meaning of my work? Looking at the sea did not find the answer, butWant to have a baby? I even want to give birth to the child in the current company. The company’s people and the boss are more familiar with it, and they are more guaranteed in annual leave and other benefits, and they will be more comfortable.

If I have a baby, I must give him a better environment for growing up. My husband’s current salary is slightly lower than mine. I’m not afraid of him being poor. I’m just afraid that the future is very uncertain. In addition, I am the only child at home. If I have been staying in Beijing and do not have particularly good economic conditions, what should my parents do?

But at present, my parents are not yet sixty years old, and I still have time.

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Xiao AI, 30 years old

Government Center staff

Unmarried and unborn


“Women’s age has a great impact on future families and occupations, this is a problem that there is no way to escape”

In the beginning, I chose this job mainly to have a full weekend, and in most cases to get off work on time. In this city of Chengdu, there are many jobs that take a single break, whether or not this single break is necessary. But for me, with a full weekend and little overtime, I really feel that my life and work can be balanced.

In fact, I am not completely satisfied with this job. The most important thing is definitely because of the low salary. We rarely get promoted and raise wages, and I even think that my current wage level should still be below the average salary in Chengdu. Therefore, a large part of my expectations for future life are still thinking about how to increase income and make more money.

“The work of civil servants Winning in stability, I haven’t paid attention to any workplace crisis of 35 years old”

I am a local, and the university is also in the province. The major is agricultural resources and environment, and my current job is still the counterpart.

As for why I chose to be a civil servant, I don’t think I need to say more. Girls like us from small cities and towns in backward provinces generally don’t want you to work hard at home. In fact, you don’t think you can achieve anything. Being a civil servant or a teacher in a place close to home is the most glorious and decent job, and then getting married and living peacefully, it is not difficult to buy a house car.

The promotion of rank depends on the working hours. I started as a staff member and worked for eight years. The current level is deputy department. Although it is said that the level is different, in fact, I have no real sense of promotion.

I am very dissatisfied with my current working status. I already have a child, and now I am two and a half years old and have not attended kindergarten. But now my work is still very busy, and there is a lot of overtime. It is often because of the paper on the top that you will have to spend the weekend, and there are usually various messy inspections and inexplicable meetings.

The work is very busy, and the current salary does not meet my expectations. In fact, my colleagues around me are also very negative, or rather resentful, feel that the work and salary do not match, and also feel that they are busy and doing a lot of unnecessary work. Ten years ago, I hoped to live a “poetic” life in the future. I could easily drink tea on weekends and holidays, or travel frequently, but now I can only prove that I was unrealistic fantasy.

Civil servants’ work is stable. I haven’t paid attention to any crisis in the 35-year-old workplace. I’m not particularly anxious. At most, I have lost my temper because of overtime work. There is no specific plan for the future. In fact, age and gender are not a big problem in the system. After all, everyone has to spend time for promotion, and there are regulations on the proportion of women in the leadership in the system, so there is no gender discrimination.

I now hope that work can be more balanced with my life. Now that this state accounts for more than 70% of my life, I have no way to draw more