In many places, after the death of a loved one, it is said that the souls of loved ones will return home to look at the first seven o’clock. Some people even say that they can see the footprints left on the ground by sprinkling lime. The shape of the footprints indicates that the animal or human being is about to be reborn in the next life.
There is another saying in my hometown. Relatives will not only return at the first seven. In addition, families with relatives who have passed away are counted from the day of death. Fruits and meals are to be offered every ten days. Ten days is ten days, which is called worship, but by the ninth day, it cannot be offered. Moreover, the whole family had to go out after 7 o’clock in the morning. They were not allowed to stay at home, nor could they cook at home. They could only go to relatives’ houses, and no one was allowed to stay or go home within 12 hours. You can’t go home until night. In the tenth day, one hundred days, all relatives will be invited to eat a meal, which means that the deceased has been blissful, and has lost all his life. Regarding the strange custom of the ninth day, I have been asking my grandmother since I was a child. After all, children are very curious, but grandma is taboo. So it is always puzzling.
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Later, this was told to me by Uncle Gui. This confession is actually: after the death of a loved one, it was in a state of mid-yin for a while, and failed to be reborn or To report, so you need to support the family. However, by the eightyth day, Zhongyin body had to set off and report to Hades. But because it has been used to worship before, so it will not want to go and want to choose to stay in the world and continue to be enshrined. Of course, this is not good for them, which means that it will not be able to give birth. Therefore, at the ninth day, no longer can be enshrined, and his family must avoid it, so that he no longer has a love relationship, and he will report to it with peace of mind. Another saying is: by the ninth day, Zhongyin body has actually begun to forget the lifetime If he is at home that day, if he can’t eat the offerings, it will be detrimental to others, so he must avoid it.
When Uncle Gui was speaking, his nephew was also present. He was 18 or 9 years old, and I was only a few years old. His nephew was young and he didn’t take it for granted. He laughed: I still believe in these surplus poisons of feudalism in this age. If there is any, he needs people to worship. It proves that the soul has no ability even if it has it. It also avoids what he does. It’s better to go to find food and have someone to worship hahaha. . .