? What you lack is not Lan Yingying but tiger mothers. Failure to enter Qingbei Junior Class before the age of 15 is definitely an education failure!
Wan Qian is another transit point for “success anxiety”, but the distribution method is more hidden.
While telling the story that she can be a golden gourd without chasing fame and fortune, she carefully concealed her desire for success, and she could even answer to prove herself. The loneliness and namelessness in the singer period did not want to talk about it again, and if it was popular with singing, would it still be this attitude?
She may not pretend, but selectively forgot. Those “failed efforts”, because of the final result, were erased by Wan Qian. I didn’t want to be popular at all, not being popular is my active choice.
There is no way. If you work hard and get old, you must obtain the legitimacy of failure. I am a person who is indifferent to fame and fortune.
This is like the low-desire society and indifferent design associated with Japan’s long economic recession. The essence is that the loser has to make a reasonable explanation for the failure, to obtain a spiritual victory and even an aesthetic taste.
Lan Yingying uses another method to face “failure after hard work”: I have not failed yet because I am still working hard.
But under the mentality of learning success, she selectively ignored the stagnation of acting, and instead continued to develop new projects to maintain the “state of effort”.
People are not really indifferent, and there is no real achievement in hard work. Wan Qian forgot the process, Lan Yingying forgot the result. In the world of success learning, there have always been these two kinds of lost people. And the normal state of confusion for more people is to switch back and forth between “blue chicken blood” and “wan type sparse”.