2020 is almost over, are you okay?
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2020 is a magical start year. In the past 9 months, with the occurrence of epidemics, floods, explosions, etc., people have collectively experienced and endured various uncertain factors. Loss, anxiety, departure, persistence, and renewal have become the common emotions of many people.
On September 22, “#2020年只100天#” rushed to Weibo hot Search. Some people check in on Weibo every day and set up the Flag again, such as going to the cafeteria to eat or keeping a good mood every day. On the short video platform, a Kwai How many days”, the background music is “Spring Festival Overture” with the sound of firecrackers.
At the beginning of 2020, many people will say, let’s make it again. By the middle of the year, many people wanted to escape. Some people say that “PUA” has become a buzzword. There are perpetrators and victims, but no one has discovered that everyone has been “PUA” in 2020.
A recent graduate considers “finding a job” rather than “finding a good job” as the goal for 2020. This may be the common experience of more than 8.74 million recent college students this year. They spend their days and lose their hair. , Can anxiety be corrected;A working person in Wuhan would use the word “struggle” to describe her 2020. At that time, she could only live on the minimum wage, and keeping a diary became the only support during that period.
In the past 200 days, living a “normal life” has become the goal of many people, rather than a “faithful and dull” dream life.
The epidemic has made people rediscover the definition of “anxiety” and “leave”. A family at the door “Shaxian snacks “The closing of the store and the relocation of a 24Hour convenience store can trigger the sentence, “It’s too difficult.” A 30-year-old professional left Beijing and returned to Wu.Han family township, he suddenly got mild depression The first-tier cities cannot accommodate the body, and the second- and third-tier cities cannot accommodate the soul. A practitioner in the education industry broke up with his lover in 2020 and encountered the unexpected death of his friend. No one knows which one will come first tomorrow.
What are the “difficult” moments in the past for you in 2020, and how do you spend less than 100 days? Everyone will have their own answers. In the answers of the following people, in the future planning, there is no more important blessing than being with your family and being healthy.
The familiar taste disappeared, I realized that no one is spared
Chen Mu | 27-year-old media practitioner
Social media is full of the losses and regrets of 2020, but my bigIn the past six months, there was no impact. During the epidemic, work remained the same, income remained the same, there were no other twists and turns, and I did not feel how difficult it was.
But the economy is like this, any fluctuations will be transmitted through the long chain and directly affect your life.
The “difficulty” I feel stems from a small matter. I’m from the Northwest and I like to eat a kind of noodles from my hometown, called iron pot braised noodles. During these years in Beijing, every one or two months I have to make appointments with friends from my hometown to have braised noodles at a restaurant near Peony Garden. The taste of my hometown made me very happy, and it also helped me to relieve my homesickness.
Last month, two friends and I made an appointment to go to the Peony Garden restaurant for dinner. I have to take the subway far away from my home. Every time I go to eat, I always have a pilgrimage mentality. When it arrived, the friend who arrived first told me that the store was closed, and my heart, who was already talking about it, suddenly became cold.
Fortunately, we found another branch online, which was closer to my home. After we met, we went to the nearby subway station and walked for a kilometer under the scorching sun, and finally found that branch.
This store is also closed. The three of us stood helplessly in front of the closed store for a long time, facing Popular Comments The comments on the comments looked at the date one by one. I wanted to know the exact time and specific reasons for the closure of these two stores. Later, a person called my stomach and thought about finding a place to eat quickly.
Hesitate to find a place nearby to have a bite, but we were not reconciled, so we dialed the number of the third store of the same name on Dianping Dianping. What was pleasantly surprised was that this restaurant was open and we immediately took a taxi. Rush over.
What makes people laugh or cry is that this shop is located in the corner of the office building and has only six or seven seats. Looking through the ordering window, only two people are busy in the back kitchen. The iron pot here is a small single-person pot. Although the portion is ok, the presentation and taste are far worse.
Yes, this is a counterfeit shop that misappropriated the name of that shop. The business license posted on the wall shows that it has nothing to do with the more famous shop. However, relying on low cost and regular office buildings, it was just during the epidemic. Supported it.
We are very hungry, everyone ate a lot, sad and emptyChennai, a restaurant related to his hometown disappeared. It makes people feel that they are a little farther away from their hometown when they drifted in the big city. Although this shortcoming is insignificant, it will be buried deep in my heart, affecting or even changing one’s choices.
A friend of mine who worked with me was a bit turbulent this year at work, and was worried about being laid off for a long time. The family urged him to go back to work again and again. He hesitated for a long time. After the store disappeared, he ate pirated braised noodles and said dullly, “I really want to go home and eat.”
After successive breakups and unexpected deaths of friends, I don’t feel better
Sisi | 30-year-old education industry practitioner
This year is really magical. Since the beginning of the year, I have always felt very depressed, no matter whether it is work or other things, I am not interested in it.
During the epidemic, I broke up with my boyfriend. It really feels that this love conversation is not interesting. It’s busy with each other, and I haven’t seen one side for three months. There is nothing to talk about every day except for shouting at each other and getting tired. In the end, I chose to break up. After breaking up, I felt that being alone is actually quite good.
It’s okay to break up, but what makes me sad is that I have lost a good friend forever. In April, I suddenly got news that my good friend passed away unexpectedly. It was a rainy afternoon, and I received several messages from old friends, and they all came to verify this with me. After listening to it, I couldn’t believe it was true, so I asked all my mutual friends again.
The rainy day when my friend died unexpectedly / Photo courtesy of the respondent
It wasn’t until three hours later that a friend rushed to her hometown, saw the posthumous photos and the nearly collapsed parents, and finally confirmed the authenticity of the news. When I received a call from a friend, I felt a blank mind and a hint of fear. A slightly crying trill sounded from the other end of the phone: “I was in a car accident on the highway. When I was sent to the hospital, my heartbeat was gone.” My friend comforted me not to be too sad. I held back my emotions and confirmed with him again and again. After knowing the truth of the facts, after fully confirming that it was true, tears could no longer be stretched and gush out.
Can’t help but sigh, you won’t know which one will come first tomorrow or accident. She was so young, we used toShe is a good friend who talks about everything. A few days ago, I watched her post a friend and complained that she was too tired to work overtime, and I never expected to see her again.
Hang up the phone, I opened her Weibo, the last Weibo was a song, “I am a fish”, click to play, when I heard the lyrics of “May I miss you”, Tears came out again. I wiped my tears and looked at the comments of my friends on Weibo. I could only sigh silently, and a sense of powerlessness flooded my heart. I couldn’t do anything but regret.
Two or three days later, I dreamed of her. She smiled at me in the dream and said that she had a good time there. I woke up from crying that day, but there were some who envied her, and it was a relief to not have to live this difficult life.
I’m actually a very optimistic person, but in recent years, after successive life changes, the departure of relatives, and the hardships of working alone, I gradually feel less happy. Especially, during the epidemic at the beginning of this year, I felt that the whole person was too depressed, and I would often hide in secret and get drunk. Life is really too bitter.
I don’t want to make 2020 again, it’s really too difficult and too mourning. Hope to get through this year and get better next year.
The boss said, your job is as simple as the street sweeper, but it’s much more comfortable
Zheng Xiu | 27 years old electronics company trainer
I have been out of work since the outbreak. By the end of July, I couldn’t stay idle and joined an electronics company in Beijing as a trainer, mainly for newcomers. The main business of this company is to digitize paper information. The job is very simple. It is to turn on the computer, compare the scanned electronic information and paper information, find errors and omissions, and correct the computer manually.
The work is simple, just be more serious. But there are always people who do not do well. The boss is very demanding because of carelessness or inattention, or other reasons. Whether it is a new or old employee, once he makes a mistake, he will say in front of many people in the office, “You work It’s as simple as sweeping the street, but it’s much more comfortable.”
The new employee lowered his head, and the old employee was busy with his work, quiet. My heart is very uncomfortable, not that there is occupational discrimination, but that I have to follow the boss’s statement. I used to work until 10 pm to organize training experience, write small cards, and make PPT on weekends. These tasks are in the eyes of others. In “Sweep the Street”, all this seems too absurd and ridiculous.
I thought about leaving several times.here, to be honest, I am dedicated to this job, Don’t be lazy and play skating, but I can’t stand the boss’s attitude, just because I don’t want to move when I reach the age.
I didn’t have to work because of lack of money or other reasons. I just wanted to find a relaxed and time-consuming job. It’s not my goal to make money from work, so I’m not afraid to contradict my boss. You can lose your job, but you won’t be angry.
So when my boss criticizes my work or asks me to make some whimsical changes, I will fight back. For example, he feels that this job is confidential, and he does not trust the newcomers who have just started, fearing that they may steal this information. I retorted that you don’t trust, you can do it yourself. He has nothing to say.
Small companies are magical, and you can meet all kinds of people. The salary is very low, and there are still many people who come to work here. It may be difficult to find a job after the outbreak. From the uncle in 1982 to the small fresh meat after 00, from outsiders to Beijingers. A 1.83-meter tall boy, after working for 5 days, in order to get his salary, his girlfriend pretended to be his mother, called and asked the company for money.
In August, the boss agreed to a deaf person’s entry request. The little girl was very serious, and the error rate was also Below the standard line, I admire her very much.
But the boss doesn’t know why, a week later, let me tell the little girl not to come tomorrow and let the deaf little girl go. I asked the boss, how good the girl is, why can’t she stay? The boss said there was no reason. The little girl couldn’t talk. When she left, she didn’t cry or did anything. She left quietly. Maybe she was used to it.
I always feel quite guilty about this.
I just hope to hurry up in 2020