I thought that there was nothing to say about the topic of dog licking. When I asked the boys, they turned into madness, and tearfully stated the tragedy of licking the dog to the end.
But when I went to ask a girl to ask about this problem, I found that the perspectives of the two sides are completely different for “licking the dog.” After listening to their description, I suddenly felt that licking the dog was not worthy of sympathy.
So in this issue, I will talk about the differences between men and women in this matter. You don’t need to make any guiding opinions, but to understand what the other person is thinking.
01
First of all, we have to define what licking a dog is. An ordinary pursuit is definitely not enough to become a licking dog.
Someone asked why you should treat affection as a dog licking?
There is a difference between the two. The basis of affectionateness is that you haven’t given up on your self-esteem, knowing that the other person doesn’t like yourself, try not to bother you.
A dog licking is a hard lick. Even if you know that the other person is boring to yourself, you still don’t give up, abandon your self-esteem, and regardless of whether it will cause trouble to the other person, try your best to treat her in your own way.
For example, the famous foot fetish maniac, Saibei idiot, teacher You Tanzhi.
And the youngest licking dog in history, Masao Sato.
So the essential difference between affectionate and dog licking is that affectionate can accept that you can’t get it, and the purpose of dog licking is to get it, and in the process, rationalize your behavior by licking.
Let’s take a look at a typical case of dog licking.
I have a friend who is really a friend, not me. He claimed to lick the dog, and then always suspected that his goddess was hanging him.
I asked him why?
He said that he sends messages to the other party every day. Although the other party does not reply in time every time, at least he is willing to reply to him every time. Occasionally, I still have a good chat.
Then give her some gifts, and the other party will accept it, and even ask the other party out to meet, and the other party will come out to eat with him from time to time.
He asked me: Brother, did you say she was hanging me to play?
I said since you think people are hangingWhy are you licking while you are playing?
He replied: She did not explicitly refuse, then of course I think I still have a chance, right. Especially she is willing to come out alone to eat with me, at least not hate me, right.
I thought, it makes sense, my little brother, the analysis is very thorough, and my position as a master of theory will be given to you.
It happened that I also knew his goddess, so I simply went to ask what they thought.
If I am really hesitating, I will tell my friends something nice. If you really don’t like it, I will advise you not to hang him.
After all, I am known as a small speaker in the magic capital, a member of the East China Broadcasting Station, and the neighborhood committee of the Pan-Yangtze River Delta. In my spare time, I like to chat with the aunts about the price of food in the food market, and exchange ideas about hot dishes.
I’m sure about this wave of gossip, and I can’t stop it when Jesus comes, I said!
Then I happily ran to find his girl to investigate the situation, and the girl had this expression after listening:
The hostess said: I don’t know why he thinks so much, and I am also troubled.
In fact, in the eyes of the woman, the whole thing is completely different.
Of course she knows that boys have a good opinion of her, but she just doesn’t hate or like each other. In short, she excludes one from the beginning.From the possible kind.
Then why do you want to return his information?
Out of politeness, she will reply as long as it’s not too annoying.
Then why do you want to accept gifts from others?
In fact, I didn’t want to receive it. I wanted to transfer the money to him at the beginning, but he didn’t receive it. I felt that it was shameless. Returning, it seems even less face to him. Give it back, it’s too ambiguous. In fact, many gifts are not needed, and I don’t know how to deal with them, which is embarrassing.
Then why did you agree to eat out?
Because I have invited so many times, I am embarrassed and agreed. Besides, it doesn’t really mean eating with someone.
Then you don’t like him, why don’t you just reject him? The girl was stunned and said: He didn’t confess either…
I was silent, so I went back and asked him, have you never confessed to anyone? ? ?
His answer was shocking: She hasn’t liked me yet, of course I will not confess. As long as I don’t confess, I can continue chasing her.
I took a deep breath, friends, I finally found this sentence to be the truth: licking a dog is really awesome.
02
I think the first misunderstanding of licking a dog is: I always feel that the other person is hanging himself.
For example, when it comes to the concept of “pursuit”, there is an error in both parties’ understanding.
The logic of licking the dog is that if I like you, I should create contact opportunities step by step.
A good morning every day, good night, have you eaten, what are you doing? Talk to you about life, talk about ideals, and desperately want to tell each other what kind of person I am. Then give gifts, express their concern, and try their best to invite the other party out for dinner, so that the front line is particularly long.
They hope to wait until they are 80% sure, and then confess that the two people are together smoothly. You haven’t accepted me because you don’t understand me enough. As long as I don’t confess, I still have a chance.
The logic of the girl is that if the other party has a chance, in fact, the first time they meet, they are sure about 70% to 80%.
You have to confess to me first, tell me you like me. I didn’t treat you