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On the battlefield of the game, there is no longer the unbearable Zuan culture, only the graceful and graceful language art.
It is active in various social situations on the Internet, setting off a wave of (pretend) to talk about civilization and politeness. wind”.
Now that every new event or topic is published, the new picture of “high EQ vs. Low EQ” will be reproduced immediately on the Internet. It can be said that the wildfire is endless, and the spring breeze is blowing again.
When the Zheng Shuang surrogacy incident was screened a while ago, the “high EQ VS low EQ” will naturally not fall behind:
20 years ago, we listened to “Learning High EQ from Childhood” on the radio; 10 years ago, we opened “Women with High Emotional Intelligence” in the library. A year ago, we bought “100” in the app. A method to take you to get rich with emotional intelligence” course; now, we understand “high emotional intelligence and low emotional intelligence” in the emoji package in one second.
These silly pictures seem to be straightforward but unacceptable words, and become words that make the other person feel good.
But in fact, behind each of the jokes are deconstructed mockery and endless entertainment.
where does “High EQ VS Low EQ” come from?
“High EQ vs. Low EQ” has become popular, and more and more stalking pictures have spread. But when asked who the lady in blue and white is, netizens are usually at a loss.
Actually, this lady comes from an account on Douyin called “Huizi Says Emotion”.
She is positioned as a “guide on the emotional road”. She was the first to teach people how to deal with the relationship between husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and to provide people with some secrets behind family conflicts. Later, Keiko began to enter social situations, workplaces and other situations to teach people how to obtain Happy love life.
The feature of her video is that it is in line with the real topics of middle-aged women’s lives. It is easy to think of relatives who go home during the Chinese New Year and talk headaches. Presumably, if they see the video, there is a 99% chance that they will suddenly feel relieved. Empowerment.
Aunt Huizi is their EQ mentor. The posture of sitting upright and unwavering tone is quite a professional psychologist.
When my daughter brought home a boyfriend that her mother didn’t like, Aunt Keiko taught her mother to say this:
Low EQ: Look at you, do you deserve it?
High EQ: Hello boy, which boyfriend are you from Xiaoli?
When children ask for red envelopes with their elders, Aunt Huizi teaches the elders to reply:
Low EQ: How come you ask for a red envelope when you see someone?
High EQ: Oh, I’m tired of collecting small red envelopes. Come, Auntie will give you thirty million. Have fun, eat happily, remember, go out to meet your elders, the first sentence is to greet the new year!
When my son asked his mother for money to go out on his son’s birthday, Aunt Huizi once again threw 30 million yuan to his son:
Low EQ: I got more than 200 points in the college entrance examination. You have the face to celebrate your birthday, but I don’t even have the face to say that I gave birth to you.
High EQ: Is it good for my mother to give you 30 million? Be happy, be happy, and be safe!
Does this style have a familiar taste? Yes, it is in those home crowds filled with all kinds of good morning, good night and holiday wishes.
So, from the perspective of young people, her videos also highlight an invisible interest similar to middle-aged and elderly emojis.
If you still remember the phrase “the master is by my side”, it actually came from Aunt Huizi.
A simple word of “competition” immediately gave the opponent a sense of attention that is highly valued, as if this excellence has been hidden for a long time, and it was perceived as a beautiful accident.
Later, this sentence also gave rise to new stalks such as “The gay is by my side,” “The clown is by my side,” and “The clown is myself.”
Similarly, on various social entertainment platforms such as Douyin, Weibo, and Station B, a large number of imitators of “high EQ vs. Low EQ” have begun to appear, vying to carry out secondary creations and large-scale magic changes.
Movies, TV series, comics, and even Lei Jun’s press conference have been edited into a small classroom of “high EQ vs. low EQ”.
QQ’s official Weibo account has also kept up with this trend. Singer Haiquan took a “high EQ VS low EQ” commentary video to convey social skills.
Low EQ: Oh, you have gained weight recently.
High EQ: Your figure is interesting.
Under a wave of “high EQ VS low EQ” stalking, although the old copy is tired of reading, every time there are netizens who can renew the old.
It’s not about how dazzling the picture itself is, or how much netizens really need high EQ to give directions. The reason why it is often new is that it has created a new template of yin and yang on the Internet.
The “Yin and Yang Weird” that cannot be stopped on the Internet
In fact, everyone knows that the high EQ and low EQ in the mystery are not really high EQ.
This kind of VS not only has a humorous purpose, it is more of a group of young people’s awareness of real scarcity, life distress, and social difficulties through the Internet context.Self-deprecating.
On the surface, it is improving EQ, but it is actually yin and yang.
Not only “high EQ VS low EQ”, yin and yang strangeness has become a new system of Internet speech.
The idiom “Yin and Yang Weiqi” was originally from the second act of “Beijing People” by Cao Yu:
Which one of them wants to follow my heart? Which one is not yin and yang strange.
At that time, the yin and yang strangeness still described a person’s quirky attitude, cold talk, and unpredictability.
Early yin and yang weirdness on the Internet is just adding “ne” and “yah” to the end of the sentence to help, such as “yes”, “okay”, “who is this”, “who has never heard of you” Your name”.
Later, the yin and yang weirdness began to attack emoji, so cuteness is no longer just cute, picking your nose is no longer just picking your nose, grievance is no longer just grievance, family members smile as a smile, you smile as hehe
Now, someone on Zhihu has posted specifically to teach you how to yin and yang weirdness. Douyin has a label of “Daily yin and yang weird tricks”. Douyin has also set up a yin and yang weirdness group, where like-minded people can gather here.
The yin and yang weirdness once appeared in the Internet world from person to person.
The core of its style is: (pretend) respect and politeness, (Pretend) is unaware, (real) is on a high ground.
Same as “High EQ VS Low EQ”, the focus is on the contrast, camouflage, and conflict, which make people angry enough to make smoke, but also pretend to be calm.
Nowadays, yin and yang weirdness are not uncommon, and a new species appeared last year: “yin and yang people”.
Their language system frequently flashes in various online battles. Just send a sentence “This is it?” “No, no, no, no, no”, “Is anxious, anxious, he’s anxious!”, all networks The language violence of the world immediately seemed to hit the air with a punch.
Normal people say “Awesome!”, yin and yang people say “Really, then you are really awesome”; normal people say “I was wrong”, yin and yang people say “Okay, it’s all my fault Let’s go”; normal people say “you’re right”, yin and yang people say “you’re right when you do.
Compared to swearing, yin and yang is a decent attack.
Although the superficial harmony has been maintained, as more and more people have yin and yang, the onlookers also felt resentful.
Some netizens have deconstructed the “Yin-Yang Weird Language” and taught people how to make the yin-yang weird while failing.
The weirdness of yin and yang has become a kind of online trend that is difficult to stop. Netizens who follow the trend are connected together to seek a strong sense of group identity and group belonging.
“High EQ VS Low EQ” can be said to be an advanced version of Yin and Yang Weiqi.
After all, it likes to use its brains and bends around. Compared with simple yin and yang, it has developed a more complex and diverse space.
As a kind of satirical speech act, they all have a humorous side, which can relieve the pressure of meditation and vent dissatisfaction, but there are also negative aspects that will make the language lose its original meaning, and at the same time form an inexplicable online hostility.
In any case, the irony has a degree.
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