Problem description: Hello doctor, I have a younger brother, he is 14 years old this year, he is very unconscious in his studies, he basically does not attend class, his homework is not completed, and he is lying, and his family has also been educated a lot Secondly, no method is useful. At first, we all regarded this as a child’s learning problem, but after a long time we felt that he needed to be psychologically unblocked, and felt that he always closed his heart and said it was different from what he thought. He has been working against his family, feeling that what he does is right, he never reflects on himself, and always finds all kinds of reasons to blame others for his mistakes. In addition, when doing some things, he never thinks about the consequences or considers others. He is always self-centered. He is not very good when talking to everyone. The tone is not because he hates each other, and I don’t know. When did he start to be like this, it has become a habit. We have told him many times that he should be gentle when speaking with others, and he will not listen. The most worrying thing is that he has developed the bad problem of lying. Now, the lie came casually, and after being exposed, we were still confident. Our family was going crazy because of his study and personality. We didn’t understand his psychology, but we felt that there were problems in many aspects. We are also responsible for family education. When my younger brother was young, his family didn’t take care of him much. When I went to school outside, my mother always took care of him at home. He has been like this for several years, and his family has been unable to do anything about him. We really don’t know what to do. We want to take him for psychological counseling and hope to seek help from professionals.
Question date:2021-01-23
Patient information:Age: 14 years old Gender: Male
Question analysis: Hello, from your description, this behavior may be a manifestation of adolescent rebellion.
Guiding suggestions: At present, this still needs reasonable communication. You need to look at your own psychological situation. You can look at the psychology of adolescence.
The suggestions are for reference only, and the problem is serious. Please also go to the hospital for detailed examination